RichC Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Finally. She keeps the house and I get my pension. She's awarded permanent maintenance due to emphasema and heart problems. I get awarded half of her student loan debts ($20,000). The judge castigated her for most of the order basically saying her credibility was not worth a da*n then does this!! She is also asking for a hearing for contempt because I did not make enough money to pay everything the preliminary court order wanted. This while she lied and was taking in $632 in SSI she told no one about. While I was trying to scrape by. She did not even attempt to lower her costs at all. Her sister lived with us since '01 and pays nothing. So I was paying for her, her sister, the house, the dogs. I am one bitter S*B right now.
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Just be happy your not with her anymore. You can always go with a lawyer and reduce your alimony once you can prove that emphesema is garbage! I've known people with sickle cell anemia that can take care of themselves! Good luck to you. You got your pension go buy a house.
abeliever Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 RichC I can't wait to be in your shoes! My D is coming soon hopefully by Friday or Monday! It keeps moving so I never know. Lawyer is on too many cases at once and they overlap. That part sucks but I hope to get my things I have asked for and move on! Celebrate, you made it. It could be worse you could be stuck taking care of her sorry a$$!! Ha! Good Luck abeliever
twice_shy Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Finally. She keeps the house and I get my pension. She's awarded permanent maintenance due to emphasema and heart problems. I get awarded half of her student loan debts ($20,000). The judge castigated her for most of the order basically saying her credibility was not worth a da*n then does this!! She is also asking for a hearing for contempt because I did not make enough money to pay everything the preliminary court order wanted. This while she lied and was taking in $632 in SSI she told no one about. While I was trying to scrape by. She did not even attempt to lower her costs at all. Her sister lived with us since '01 and pays nothing. So I was paying for her, her sister, the house, the dogs. I am one bitter S*B right now. Well no doubt. I feel for ya man. The crappy thing is, the judge castigated her and thinks she is scum, but awards her all this money anyway?? Just goes to show that most of the time the courts are slanted in favor of women.
Author RichC Posted February 6, 2008 Author Posted February 6, 2008 (edited) I just have to keep the stress under control. My plate is full: Divorce Lost my job on 21 December Deploying to Iraq in April Dad passed on 25 January The phrase grim determination takes on new meaning. Edited February 6, 2008 by RichC
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 I just have to keep the stress under control. My plate is full: Divorce Lost my job on 21 December Deploying to Iraq in April Dad passed on 25 January The phrase grim determination takes on new meaning. Stay up playboy!!! Your not around the madness and now you can refocus on your life without worrying about anyone else. I mean if you got kids they are all your supposed to think about. Your getting deployed, hey you never know you might meet a hot female soldier who's single. Maybe you can make things work out there. in that hot desert sun. lol. Come back home safely man. and stay up. Life goes on.
Recommended Posts