Cobra_X30 Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 I am going to go through life now thinking "what if". I really doubt what my gut was telling me about the woman at the bar, but "what if" I was wrong. Did I just ruin a really good thing because I was "just jealous"? As far as telling H, it won't make a difference. It won't shock him, nor would it change a thing in my life. He's a great dad to our 3 boys, but a pretty lousey H. He enjoys the fact that I gave up my career to stay at home and that I take care of everything. Oh, except the garbage...his one and only "chore". I've been telling him for the past 2 years that our marraige isn't working for me. I've asked to be open, swing, something to spice it up. So if MM W were to contact him, it really wouldn't be a big deal. My life would go along unchanged. Whatever! Look your gut was more than likely spot on! Essentially you were just a booty call for this guy. I really doubt you had anything good going on. Now, you want your career back... then go get it! File for a divorce too while your at it. Sneaking around behind your husbands back is not an answer. I'm not saying that for him... I'm saying that for you! Don't you deserve more from life than just being some guys cheap thrill for the evening? Why settle for some cheap tawdry affair with a man who isn't worth the tears? Don't you want someone who really loves you? Don't your children deserve to see a Marriage that works?
whichwayisup Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 ". I've been telling him for the past 2 years that our marraige isn't working for me. I've asked to be open, swing, something to spice it up. So if MM W were to contact him, it really wouldn't be a big deal. Then this situation might help you to get out of your marriage as it does sound like you want out. You and your husband can still co-parent your kids together and do a good job together too, just not under the same roof. Have joint custody and make it as easy as possible (be on good terms with eachother) for your children.
bentnotbroken Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Sounds to me that if she thinks her hubby won't care, it's because she has done it before. She has had another affair and hubby found out and didn't run for the hills. Maybe he is getting his own on the side.:confused:
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Sounds to me that if she thinks her hubby won't care, it's because she has done it before. She has had another affair and hubby found out and didn't run for the hills. Maybe he is getting his own on the side.:confused: It's a possibility. Or he could just be there only for the kids because some courts in our land of america screw over men, wrongly. and he's waiting for the right time to leave. He could not just care anymore because he just doesnt care his wife is hoing around. Some dudes can turn off their feelings when they need to, to protect themselves from getting hurt.
danavladeem Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 Give me your name, and I will come up with your full name, maiden name, husband's name, your address, your phone number, your age and husband's age, past addresses, and more. That was just what I know I can find for free. Unlisted means nothing in today's world of the internet. I don't think so. There are still many ways to hide. Now, if you are speaking about the average person, yeah, that maybe true.
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 6, 2008 Posted February 6, 2008 I don't think so. There are still many ways to hide. Now, if you are speaking about the average person, yeah, that maybe true. Dude, If someone wanted to find you, ...they will.
danavladeem Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Dude, If someone wanted to find you, ...they will. Well, I guess the intel community have failed. That guy with the 'twin towers' project?
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Well, I guess the intel community have failed. That guy with the 'twin towers' project? Who? Bin Laden? lol.
danavladeem Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Dude Hmmmm.....the last time I look, I didn't see any dangling bits. But, again, I haven't seen my feet since 13....well, maybe if I really, really stretch out my toes!
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 Hmmmm.....the last time I look, I didn't see any dangling bits. But, again, I haven't seen my feet since 13....well, maybe if I really, really stretch out my toes! TMI!!! LMAO!
mystic_pizza Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 skychic, I don't think you have to worry (not that you were) about her contacting your H. You mentioned he was in the AF, well the military does not take kindly to A's and he could possibly get discharged if the A were to become public. Unless his W wants him to end his military career I don't think you have to worry about her calling...especially since you threatened to call his base commander. That would end his career and quick!
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