Joeus79 Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 There's not a lot of reason to give a detailed background so i'll keep it short.... its the now i need help with..... 1) It was an affair (she was with someone) 2) It lastest over 6 months, it was amazing 3) She dumped me by text 4) we have never spoken since except for texts and emails 5) I went mad, and said alot of things i regret.... she always said it wasn't me saying those things... i really made a fool of myself 6) About 7 weeks ago she told me she is now on her own and thats the way she wants it to be.... and that if i contact her i won't get over it 7). Have improved myself a great deal..... dealt with my problems.... NC etc... 8). Have had to accept a job with her.......... So about three weeks ago i had to go for an interview for a job, and was given it on the spot. It means i'd have to work with her. I didn't tell her that i was going for the job, as a long time before she mentioned it would be very very awkward.... but i need to work. After i got the job, i thought i saw her walk by.... , and then the the next week people were asking around the office if i was going to take the job and then report back to her. I decided to send a very plain email expressing that i was taking the job, and that the past is past, and that i deeply regret some parts of my behavior after we broke up. Said best wishes and then back to NC No response... 2 weeks later... Then i had to go into the office a meet everyone.... i'm staring the job in a couple of weeks..... so i thought.. look good, be confiedent and get it over with...... smile, be strong.... get over my worst fear. As i knew i still feel an attraction between us..... I got on with it, did it.... she looked at me, then looked away..... then just ignored me.... I kept to short and left..... Lots of people in the office know that we used to be in a relationship.... So heres the thing... She has said nothing..... NC, and i have been in NC as well.... but we have to work together...... i have offered my apologies.... and offered an olive branch so that we can both move on..... I still love her....... Why would someone be so cold towards you when you shared so much.... We were talking about being together, living together etc..... both in our late 20's...... Still NC or what do you think.....?????????????????? What is she thinking?????????
Author Joeus79 Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 its my first time... didn't know where to post.... was in need of some advice not a criticism.....
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