lovesparis Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 so i've been moping and whining for like 5 months about how my ex and i split up. yesterday i met someone new. he's the best man in a wedding i'm also going to be in. the bride, groom, best man, maid of honor, and myself had lunch. this was the first time for either marie or i to meet him (he's from out of state). the groom and bride have been talking him up to marie for almost 2 years. we have lunch and the BM and i have some serious chemisty going; i try to keep it toned down b/c i know my friend has been waiting to meet him for a long time. we drop the boys back off home and head out; bride asks what we thought of him. marie says he's cute and funny; she's trying not to get her hopes up, or find something wrong with him. marie asks me what i think. i said he was nice, cute, charming, intellegent and funny. she asks if there will be competition. i said i wasn't going to go after him. she asked why, i said "b/c you've had your sights set on having a good time with him and maybe it turning into something." she said she noticed the chemistry b/w us, and what if he wants to see where things go w/ me instead of her. i said i'd ask her if it was ok with her. what would you do in the situation? i feel like any answer i gave was the wrong answer.
blind_otter Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 That is a sticky situation - but if he wasn't interested in Marie, he wasn't interested. I mean, he would have shown some interest in her rather than in you if he was into her.
Capricciosa Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 It's all speculation right now. Wait to see who he goes for (if anyone) and then decide the best way to proceed with your friend. Who knows what this guy is really like. You wouldn't want to blow a friendship over a stranger.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 How far does he live from you both? Also, if he's not interested in one of you, then it's not for you to decide.
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