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I broke up with my ex about a month and a half ago. He broke up with me saying he didnt love me anymore and i wasnt a long term girlfriend. We had been together over two years and i was absolutly shattered. The same night he broke up with me he got a new gf and hasnt contacted me since. He completly ripped my heart out.

 

Anyway a month and a half later I have tried dating again but everytime I go out on a date all I can think about is him. I come home and cry all night long because I miss him and feel so lonely. Even when the most perfect guy came along all I could think was about my ex. My attempts at dating almost seemed to make it worse.

 

I am so terrified now. I cant get back with my ex because he doesn't want me and even if he did I couldnt take him back after what hes done. But I also cant seem to move on with anyone else. I am so scared! Is life always going to be like this? Will i never be able to move forward? And will I be lonely and missing him forever?

 

If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it! Im really down right now.

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I think anger may be the best motivational thing. Not sure if its something you can force, but you are entitled to better than him. thats for sure.

 

I couldnt take him back after what hes done.

Thats good, I'd definitely start to build a hate for him thats for sure. He was probably lucky there wasn't any other guy around him to hear that because I'm sure they'd all deck him. Disgustingly heartless thing to do. I'd recommend getting that mindset.

Also, get out that doesn't always involve dating. Like a hobby (not model planes), I do Kendo a form of japanese sword fighting [asian fencing] I made friends there and I always organize some of them to come to my place and watch movies. Because hell, I have fun with them. So find something you like and join it and go from there ^_^.

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