LoveLace Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Ok, so after all you LS'ackers who told me to disappear on "Dan"...and I agreed with everyone...and had no problem with it...but now I've been shockingly hit with the complete opposite of what I thought I would be, and don't know what to do. A couple weeks ago we had the "what I want" conversation, that I want a boyfriend, he doesn't want a girlfriend, yadda yadda...but this didn't scare him off. Since then we had 1 disagreement. He called and initiated a mature conversation about the debate, and after talking it out calmly and maturely, we chalked it up to a misunderstanding. Then we spent a whole night talking and holding each other till dawn. He refers to future things like what he'll cook for me, "yet" this and "yet" that; obviously he still wants me in his life. It's become more and more evident since telling me he "doesn't want a girlfriend". Yet he cares enough to work out whatever conflicts arise between us. Talking more and getting to know each other better...this all new for us, but seems to be occuring naturally. So the chemistry has done nothing but escalate since the conversation. Slowly but surely, he sure is acting like more of a boyfriend but I'm not sure why. In the mean time, I didn't expect this to happen between us, as I've seen him as mainly just a sex object until now. The night we talked for hours and held each other, was an incredible feeling that has knocked me over. Should I ask him why he's still around knowing what I want? Or should I just keep enjoying it and going with the flow? Maybe he's not meeting my expectations 100%, but he's definitely improving in that dept. And lately, he's pointing out more and more things that he likes about me. I'm so shocked by my own feelings that I can't stop thinking about it, it's driving me crazy because he's a heard a lot of me saying I want more, more lately and here I am still feeling that way, but if I keep bugging him like that he'll run...maybe, I don't know. I'l lprobably talk to him tonight or in the next couple days, not sure if I should bring up my feelings or not.
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