Saxis Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Because we feel using the intuition that he has potential and leaving hints is the only way to see if he returns the feeling! I think it's more about not risking rejection. That's why women are much better at the game. Kinda how some animals draw in their prey, and when the moment is right, pounce! No need to waste energy they don't have to use! This is a good example, so you probably weren't interested in her in the first place then. If she had to be so obvious, in some way she had already picked up you weren't into her. But her ego wanted to make sure that wasn't the case. When clearly it was, right? Since it was only the second time I've ever seen her, and have never talked to her, there wasn't much room for interest. We were introduced and that's about it. The rest of the time was dedicated to football. I did think she was cute, but maybe too young. It was kind of a shocker for me coming out with it that soon, but either way I have a number and the ball is in my court.
Lizzie60 Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Are men turned off when you are the one that asks them out? I never done this and am always afriad that although a man might be flattered to be asked out, he won't take me seriously for long-term possibilities. I might be shy to even do this but who knows. I think men generally like to be the aggressors so they don't have has much fun when the woman is asking him out bein gthe aggressor. Have any of the ladies here asked a guy out? Did it work out? Have any of the guys here been asked out by a woman that the took seriously? Thoughts and oppinions please. Yes... it works.. Men are NOT the agressors anymore.. this is old-fashioned. Men ARE flattered and turned-on. Women need to be more assertive.. I've done that a few times..and it worked everytime.. trust me on that one... men love it.
Author JerseyShortie Posted February 5, 2008 Author Posted February 5, 2008 You wouldn't believe how many guys need obvious signs over subtle ones. And I understand that. Who wants to risk rejection? I've actually had guys say later that they asked me out because they THOUGHT I might say yes. Thought? It felt to me like I was THROWING myself at the guy. Well that is kind of how I feel. I give these subtle signs I am into a guy and he doesn't talk to me. Meanwhile other guys that I have given no social cues to come talk to me, ask me out, and they don't turn out to be nice guys. What kind of signs did you give and how were you throwing yourself at him? I am not so good with this.
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