LikesMeNot Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 (edited) There's this girl i really like. I like her for her personality, brains and looks. We talk quite a bit, and she smiles and laughs when i talk or make a joke. I don't know if she likes me or not, but i see her talking to another boy a LOT:mad: also. In fact, she hangs around his locker. she talks to other boyz as well, but i don't think she's too interested in them. Is she using me, or does she really like me??? I really like her, but i'm nervous, and i need some advice!!! -PLEASE, I NEED HELP. POST AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!! Edited February 3, 2008 by LikesMeNot Updated
Author LikesMeNot Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 I've fallen head over heels 4 her. Whenever i am around her i feel alert but also relax. I don't get nervous and keep it short during conversation.One of my friends said she new i liked her, but he's kinda untrustworthy (he also is pretty selfish. He prefers all the girls for himself) According to wat most people say r clues "if she likes u" she has a little something for me. Aww Man, i gotta make my move, i don't no wat 2 do. I'll do something on Valentine's day if i know if she likes me, is using me, or is being nice. It would be great if u could help b4 the 14th of Feb. Thanks, LikesMeNot -A added update. I hope i get some answers...............-Nervous
d13k Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Well I was like you about 2 minutes ago , and I will probably lose girl I like to another guy and thus I made resolution if I like a girl I'll tell her I love her the first time I see even the tiniest signal that she might be interested in me . So my advice to you is if you like here get her somewhere where two you can be alone and be tell her you love her (be bold).If it doesn't go well at least you will have more courage to ask another person out or you could self-destruct and be alone for the rest of your life . Anyway your choice, but I made resolution that I will be brave and bold when I want to express my feelings to a girl .( I hope I won't self-destruct )
Lucasarts Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 you'll tell a girl you LOVE HER?! you're not even going out with her, so how the hell do you know that?! thats the fastest way to lose a girl (unless shes emotionally unstable) because thats just creepy. I'd suggest just asking her out on a date. Tell her that you think she's really unique and fun to b with, and that you would like to spend more time together. Telling her that you "love her" is probably the hardest and most awkward thing to say and then deal with after (b/c most times, it'll end up bad) when you guys aren't even official. Maybe after a few months of dating, you can say that (if thats how you honestly feel).
norajane Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Why do you think she could be using you? For what? You haven't gone out on a date or anything, you just talk with her.
Blue Eyed Brain Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Ask her out and see what she says....
Author LikesMeNot Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 Well I was like you about 2 minutes ago , and I will probably lose girl I like to another guy and thus I made resolution if I like a girl I'll tell her I love her the first time I see even the tiniest signal that she might be interested in me . So my advice to you is if you like here get her somewhere where two you can be alone and be tell her you love her (be bold).If it doesn't go well at least you will have more courage to ask another person out or you could self-destruct and be alone for the rest of your life . Anyway your choice, but I made resolution that I will be brave and bold when I want to express my feelings to a girl .( I hope I won't self-destruct ) thanks, and all the posts were great, but d13k as my prfered one.
Author LikesMeNot Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 Ask her out and see what she says.... I'm shy though + i'm not sure she's into me i only have 1 class wit her and she's always with her friends between classes, so i can't do that. I don't know.............. is there anything else? LUCASARTS: although you're right, it feels to me she hasnt openedd the door enough for me to be comfortable askingher out. Also, she tlks to other boys, so its not like she's tellin me something. I feel I don't no. -LikesMeNot
Author LikesMeNot Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 Why do you think she could be using you? For what? You haven't gone out on a date or anything, you just talk with her. I apprieciate the lecture and all, but there are different ways to use people. :bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny: besides, i haven't really made my move, and she definetly won't make hers. I feel guilty leaving loose ends but i only get to talk to her ONCE A DAY! We do have a good time though. ( those would be some emotions that we show sometimes) thanks but is it worth risking it all? i can't say we're good friends, so if i screw up, i'll blow it 4 good. -LikeMeNot, Feb. 4, 2008
norajane Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 What lecture? I was asking a question trying to understand what your concerns were. I wouldn't recommend asking her out if you think she's using you, but if you have no reason for thinking she's using you, she's probably not.
amaysngrace Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Bring her a flower for Valentines dsy. She wuld like that. It cant' hurt.
Author LikesMeNot Posted February 5, 2008 Author Posted February 5, 2008 Bring her a flower for Valentines dsy. She wuld like that. It cant' hurt. Actually, thats a good idea:cool:
jimbo101 Posted February 7, 2008 Posted February 7, 2008 definitely u need to make a move! Go for it! Don't let this opportunity slips away. Maybe she likes u. If you got rejected, at least u have try your best rite? U know what, i lost a girl i loved to other guy just because i'm too shy to date her out few years ago... Good luck! Hopefully things will going well...
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