maryjane1 Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I am going out with this guy. I am really confused. I am 21 and he is 22. He is a really nice guy asnd I am really in to him. After we went out for about a month a strange thing happened. We went out to a bar and were drinking then I happened to notice something. He wet his pants. I didnt say any thing at first but then we went back to his place and finally I did because I just couldnt hold my toungue any longer. He said he didnt realize he did. I asked him if he should change and he said it didnt matter and spent the rest of the evening in wet pants. He even drove me home without changing. Since then he has done this a couple of times. Whats more when he does this he starts talking like a baby before he does it. Finally I needed to confront him about it. When I pressed the issue he started crying. He told me that he didnt know why he did it. He also told me that he liked to where diapers too. He also told me that he was attracted to girls in diapers or girls with wet pants. Since that night he has been wanting me to wear diapers for him. He tries to get me to wet my pants by tickling me or pressing on my bladder when I have to pee. He even bought some diapers and plastic pants and wanted me to wear them. I gave in and did. Since then I have been treating him more like a child. I have kind of fallen into this mother role and he this child role. I have to admit that I kind of like it cause we dont do it all the time. I am very attracted to him and we have a very good sex life. I also have to admit that find it very cute to see him in a diaper and acting like a 4 year old. Outside of all this he is a very normal guy. I know this all sounds really strange. Do you think anything is wrong with this?
Kamille Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 If you don't know it already, you'll probably get a lot of insight from Dan Savage's advice collumn. He does a lot of work on fetishism. There was even advice about your bf's baby fetichism these past few weeks, so check the archives: http://www.nowtoronto.com/columns/savagelove.cfm
oppath Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I can't imagine the baby powder tasting too good when you give him oral.
oppath Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 This looks like troll work to me... Yep, but it's a good one.
Citizen Erased Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 :lmao::lmao::lmao: This place is crazy lately.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 Do you think anything is wrong with this? I dont find it strange if you dont!
Kamille Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I'm trying to remember who was complaining about the lack of interesting threads. We definitely shoud direct him or her to this one.
Citizen Erased Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I'm trying to remember who was complaining about the lack of interesting threads. We definitely shoud direct him or her to this one. KMT. Just when he takes his break, things get nuts. How very interesting...
Kamille Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I dont find it strange if you dont! Oh I'm ready for a conversation about the concept of normal as applied to sexuality! If two people get off on it and are both consenting, what's the big deal?
Kamille Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 KMT. Just when he takes his break, things get nuts. How very interesting... ah yeah! He would dig this one. Xxx.
EYECANDY000 Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 Oh I'm ready for a conversation about the concept of normal as applied to sexuality! If two people get off on it and are both consenting, what's the big deal? My point exactly! thanx Kamille
oppath Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I've got something you could stick in your mouth and suck on, but it won't pacify you.
Kamille Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I've got something you could stick in your mouth and suck on, but it won't pacify you. Let me guess? Is it a big pink lollypop?
oppath Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 With a creamy center. It takes a lot of licks though.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I am going out with this guy. I am really confused. I am 21 and he is 22. He is a really nice guy asnd I am really in to him. After we went out for about a month a strange thing happened. We went out to a bar and were drinking then I happened to notice something. He wet his pants. I didnt say any thing at first but then we went back to his place and finally I did because I just couldnt hold my toungue any longer. He said he didnt realize he did. I asked him if he should change and he said it didnt matter and spent the rest of the evening in wet pants. He even drove me home without changing. Since then he has done this a couple of times. Whats more when he does this he starts talking like a baby before he does it. Finally I needed to confront him about it. When I pressed the issue he started crying. He told me that he didnt know why he did it. He also told me that he liked to where diapers too. He also told me that he was attracted to girls in diapers or girls with wet pants. Since that night he has been wanting me to wear diapers for him. He tries to get me to wet my pants by tickling me or pressing on my bladder when I have to pee. He even bought some diapers and plastic pants and wanted me to wear them. I gave in and did. Since then I have been treating him more like a child. I have kind of fallen into this mother role and he this child role. I have to admit that I kind of like it cause we dont do it all the time. I am very attracted to him and we have a very good sex life. I also have to admit that find it very cute to see him in a diaper and acting like a 4 year old. Outside of all this he is a very normal guy. I know this all sounds really strange. Do you think anything is wrong with this? Hi, MaryJane. I'm a therapist, so in my professional opinion I'd say he has a fetish, probably stemming from something that happened to him as a baby or young child (like sexual abuse). Of course this is not always how fetishes develop, but it is probably the result of some underlying issue that he hasn't dealt with. So that's not weird, it's something that can be treated. In my opinion as a women, yeah that would creep me out. Even though I'm a therapist, I don't know if I could handle something like that. You said you find it cute that he is acting like a baby..is this something that turns you on? Obviously you are questioning whether or not this is "normal" because you are asking for advice. He has issues that he hasn't dealt with, and they might possibly carry over into your relationship, even further beyond his diaper and baby fetish. It seems like you sort of enjoy when he acts like this..so what about the situation bothers you? Are you considering leaving the relationship because of it?
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