moejoe Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 ight well..i just found out that iv got a girlfriend aaaand shes 3 houres away.. now im totly stoked on her but.....iv got an std....should i tell her over msn or when i see her in person..wich may be till march
Jilly Bean Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 ight well..i just found out that iv got a girlfriend aaaand shes 3 houres away.. now im totly stoked on her but.....iv got an std....should i tell her over msn or when i see her in person..wich may be till march ? What do you mean you "just found out" you have a gf? Was she a mail order purchase? Have you ever met this person? And what STD do you have?
Replicant Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 Come on, if you have a STD why would you even question not telling her upfront. Potentially putting her at risk in the future. Pure nonsense.
Author moejoe Posted February 3, 2008 Author Posted February 3, 2008 (edited) so u think i sould tell her over msn becous i wont see her for a hole month Edited February 3, 2008 by moejoe
EYECANDY000 Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 Im a little confused about the I just got a g/f comment, what does that mean? Dont tell her over msn! Tell her in person and let her decide if she would still like to be physical with you.
Author moejoe Posted February 3, 2008 Author Posted February 3, 2008 Im a little confused about the I just got a g/f comment, what does that mean? Dont tell her over msn! Tell her in person and let her decide if she would still like to be physical with you. ok well we have hung out over the summer a bit thats when we met...we hung out lot over the xmiss brake and she had a bf..we talk about tryin long distens and we are as soon as she broke up with here resent bf and she did to day and she was like im all yours.....understand kinda
dreamergrl Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 I personally think that if you wont be seeing her until March, you should give her a ring. While others may think you should tell her in person - I don't think that would be fair to either of you - because if it's not something she's okay with, you'll be continuing to invest time and emotion into a relationship. I don't agree that its complete nonsense that he hasn't told her yet - if this relationship came on unexpected, I'm sure it's hard to blurt out back, Oh btw I have this or that. From what it sounds like this girl was more so a friend or someone he's just getting to know, and personally I wouldn't advertise to the world I have an std right off the bat - with no physical contact. Many people feel ashamed and insecure with having an std - and it's not as if every person who has one is someone who whores around or whatever. This person is just looking for some moral support on how to go about airing this out.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 Ok, well is this girl over her ex? Because telling her this in person might be a dealbreaker. I personally would be pissed off if I broke up with my bf for a guy who didn't tell me he had an STD. Is calling her an option? Please don't do it over the internet!!!! I think you do need to inform her before becoming physical. If you can't call her, then when you see her you should tell her, and let her decide if she wants to have a relationship. I suggest telling her that you should just take it slow until you are able to see each other. Jumping into a relationship the day she breaks up with her bf probably isn't the best idea, esp. since you guys won't be able to see each other for a month. Just talk and give her some time, and then tell her when you see her in March. Then let her make the decision whether or not she wants a relationship with you.
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