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hey i just wanted to make an update to my previous post entitled men r so confussing. i have been recently been talking to a mutal friend of mine and my ex's whom my ex has been spending alot of time with lately. well i found out that my ex really does want to be with me but he is scared of what might happen. me and his brother do have a small past and he is afraid that his brother is going to mess it up some how. he also seems to get scared when things seem to be going really good. he has a tendency to think that he doesnt deserve anything. how can i get him to understand that it is only him that i want to be with and it is him that i am in love with. is there any males that have had similar feeling that maybe able to help me better understand what my ex is thinking and y he is thinking it?

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This is a hard one!!

 

How about just enjoying one and anothers company!! go on dates etc etc and just do the lovely couply things and appreciate the time and events you do!!

 

When your out with him cuddle, hold hands and tell him how much you love him

 

Good luck

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Show him that you appreciate him. Like Frankie said, cuddle, kiss etc. Words dont mean as much to men as actions. Leave him emails a few times a week or a surprise phone call here and there when he doesnt expect it. Otherwise just enjoy each other and things will fall into place, but most important be yourself.

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hey thank you both for your advise. i will give it a try and see how things go. honestly thats if i get a chance to give it a try cause last time we spent time together not even a week ago it was him that would come up behind me and hug me and just stayed by me. lol but i really do thank you both very much.

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No problems hun

xx

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