Frankie24 Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 I know what my ex fella did was unforgivable but how can you tell if what he was saying is the truth? I.E when he left before xmas - he kept texting saying he loved me, that getting back with his ex would have been for his child only, he had never regretted anything in his life other than this Then we have a good month or 2 together Then he leaves again and the texts i get are That his ex lass wants him back, to try for the bairn as its been killing him, and that what he text before xmas is the truth, and that he'd never forget me, or he hasnt cheated on me with her I cant understand that if he loved me why would he do this? Or did he ever love me? or was it all lies? Im finding it hard to accept anything at the moment
curiousnycgirl Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 You need to move on. I know it hurts and sux, but you can't allow him to keep doing this to you. Don't allow him to use you as his fall back position. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and only you. I'd strongly suggest you go NC and stick with it. It's time for you to focus on YOU.
Author Frankie24 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Posted February 2, 2008 Ive gone NC with him and i intend not to contact him ever again!! he has no way of contacting me Just wonder why she was so special
curiousnycgirl Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 Based on what you typed here, he claimed she was not so special - but their child is, and he felt the need to be with the mother of his child, or at least give it his best shot. Reality is she is clearly not that special - otherwise he would not have left her in the first place. You need to stay removed from the drama and allow yourself time to heal. It's just not fair what he's been doing to you!
Author Frankie24 Posted February 2, 2008 Author Posted February 2, 2008 I know i have to accept what is done is done just makes you wonder what he has been saying to her
kymberann Posted February 3, 2008 Posted February 3, 2008 YUck! Sad situation that he put you through! Don't wonder! It will drive you crazy. This is all his issue. Just be gald it happened now before you two got closer or married and then he did this! It's not about you! You are better off! Best!
Author Frankie24 Posted February 3, 2008 Author Posted February 3, 2008 Yep I know Just wonder if he is hurting at all I very much doubt maybe one day itl be his turn to hurt
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