Lifes Hope Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 (edited) hey, i'm 17 and g2 highschool, my ex gf broke up with me 30 min before my exams. because we both have 2 issues, and she's unwilling to compromis or commit to our relationship. the 2 issues we both have are ex gf's issues [in my oppinion] - 1st Issue : cute and attractive from the outside, but on the inside, she's extremely independent, and even more unaffectionate, she never asks for help, never tells/shows me she likes me[only gives hints such as talking to my late on msn] - i think this is a issue because i feel that i'm insecure about if she really does like me since all her "hints" are very vague, but all her friends say she likes me, i'm just not sure. so i think the issue is just that she's too independent and dosn't show me she really cares. - 2nd Issue : she's a very careless person, when a guy flirts with her, she'll most likely flirt back cuz she dosn't notice that the guy's flirting with her, or she'll say stop, but the guy won't cuz my ex is very ....well.. unforceful, u know? like when girls say "no" in a very vulnerable, way. thats how she would say it, so i'm worried that she'll accidentally give hints to other guys that she like them. so to summarize, i think she's too careless --------------------------------------------------- Issues that she feels i have: - 1st Issue: worried too much, and yeah i am worried a lot, but i think its only cuz i always tell her i'm worried, so it stresses her out. i think if i just tell my other friends about it, i'll be able to have someone to talk to and she'll be stress-free. so i think i can work on it. - 2st Issue: i get jealous when she's with me, and instead of talking to me, she spends time and will even walk to other guys to talk to them[not cuz she haven't seem them or anything, cuz she follows her feelings, so if she thinks another guy's funnier, she'll g2 him for jokes]. so yeah that's the issues we both have, my question is that do u feel we can compromis the 2 issues? and both be more commited toward our relationship? or is breaking up a good choice to make? btw we broke up after 1 month [and she even told me she has commitment issues(b4 we went out, so i don't think she said that as an excuse to break up)] oh my other question is that, me and my ex work at the same place [Wendys lol][we're both 17] and i dunno.... i find it very awkward and stressful working with her. cuz i'm trying to get over our breakup, and everytime i hear her voice i'll think about past memories, so any tips on what i should do to lessen my stress at work? =P thanks. Edited February 2, 2008 by Lifes Hope
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