hayati Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 The most frustrating thing in the world is to always wonder. You pour your heart out and you get nothing back every time. And you wonder, what will it take for her to give in, to say something, to give you a second of her time...
nittygritty Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 Her lack of responding to your attempts of communication probably means she does not want you to contact her at this time. Quit contacting her and see if she then makes an attempt to contact you. If she makes no attempt then you will know that no communication is what she wants. Either way the relationship is over for now, you should move on with your life and accept the loss.
Author hayati Posted February 2, 2008 Author Posted February 2, 2008 you're right, I know that. I've been wasting a few years of my life here. Why waste more. - The more you wait the more you start to lie to yourself and you put ideas in your head that they still do care. And in reality she prob has moved on so well and is disgusted by the thought, but a simple no thanks woulda been nice instead of nothing.
nittygritty Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 It doesn't mean that she's disgusted "at the thought", it just means she's moved on. Once you accept that the relationship is truly over, you will move on too. It sounds like you have already made many attempts at reconciliation and your aware that thats not what she wants. Why not take your personal power back by deciding for yourself that the relationship is over? Not every love relationship is meant to last. The relationships that fail provide life lessons to learn from and better prepare a person for finding and appreciating a healthier, reciprocating love relationship.
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