Lifes Hope Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 (edited) i just have a quick question, but b4 i ask the question here's the background info, o yeah i'm 17 so i have exams lol =P - i worry a lot, and is very open about my feelings (i would tell her i really like her) - she's careless, and is not open about her feelings at all (she never told me she liked me once, except for on msn) - and we went out for a month, i know she does like me [cuz she's not the kind that gives obvious hints that she likes me, but the fact that she'll stay on msn really late and talk to me proves it i think]. but i think its bad that i'm so open about how i feel and stuff cuz i'd always tell her whenever i get jealous/worried and this'll make her really stressed, so the last 2 weeks of our relationship has been really stressful and i'm sure thats y she wanted to break up. my question is, under the circumstances that i've said [like me being always worried, mostly cuz i'm insecure about her liking me since she dosn't give good hints]. that we're stressed over my over worrying, is it normal, or ok to breakup from that? cuz i personally think we could both work on it and i think it'll only get better once we get used to eachother, like. is there a period in the beginning of every relationship that the 2 ppl'll need to get used to? or is this just my fault? cuz i keep thinking it is, and i haven't given up on her yet. sry i wrote so much. =\ oh last question, is it just my ex or do girls have a harder time handling stress than guys? cuz i really think i should of told alot of things i told her to my other friends, instead of telling her everything Edited February 2, 2008 by Lifes Hope
Belkin Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 I'm not sure I really get your situation here... How long have you known this girl? Did you only "go out" on MSN (because that's what it sounds like reading your post)? How old are you? That set aside, it seems from what you wrote that the girl was "going out" with you only for the fun of it, with no deep feelings... Anyway, if your relationship started going badly after only two weeks, I think it's best you stop there, no? Then again, I'm only saying that based on what you wrote.... So really, a bit more info would be helpful for everyone!
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