hayati Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 I've beat this around the bush. She's ignoring me only lately and I want her to tell me to take a hike. You can say that silence says a lot, but it tells me she's afraid too.........
Phateless Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 Why do you want her to tell you that? Move on buddy, you're wasting your time.
oppath Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 When girls break up with me, I want them to tell me "my feelings have changed/they aren't progressing. I don't feel we are right for each other." So if you are fishing for that from her because she gave you confusing reasons for the breakup such as "it has nothing to do with a lack of feelings, if I wanted a relationship with anyone it would be with you (I've been told that and it is confusing)," then you need to ask "be honest with me. Did your feelings change? If you don't feel we are right for each other, I want you to tell me that. It won't hurt. But the reasons you gave me are confusing and imply false hope to me. Just be honest with me." But if you want her to be mean to you, to burn the bridge, why? You can only create drama that will hurt you.
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