CC_13 Posted June 24, 2003 Posted June 24, 2003 Okay here's the deal. my ex and I have been real wierd. I got her pregnate and she had an abortion. I said she can do whatever she wants and I'll support her. two weeks after the abortion she breaks up with me. Wanting space, she didn't know what she wants and doesn't know if she wants to be with me. We were "broken up" for two months. We were still having sex and cuddling in bed. hanging out sometimes and still like together. She would hang out with other guys, and usually it was the same one. Then she had a bad prom and wanted to get back together. We got back together, for two weeks and then I drop by to find this guy that she used to like there until 3am. I got jealous and got upset with her and stayed outside until he left then I went inside and talked to her. We broke up after that and she didn't know what she wanted again. Since then she has been hanging out with this guy a lot, kissed him and cuddled with him. but there is something still there between us when we see each other. do I leave or keep trying. Thanks
Tony T Posted June 24, 2003 Posted June 24, 2003 She obviously doesn't think enough of you not to want to hurt your feelings...or not to want to see this other guy, kiss with him and cuddle with him, anymore. If she is actually telling you what she is doing with him, she's an immature bitch. If you're looking in her window with binoculars, shame on you. It would seem to me like you would want a lady who was crazy about you and wouldn't consider other guys. Then again, I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer.
wideawake Posted June 24, 2003 Posted June 24, 2003 Originally posted by Tony It would seem to me like you would want a lady who was crazy about you and wouldn't consider other guys. Ya think? Dump her crazy ass and never look back.
Cpunch75 Posted June 24, 2003 Posted June 24, 2003 that's the least of his worries.........there's a kid in the oven and this girl is going around and macking other guys while pregnant. Reality check.........HELLO don't even sweat her promiscuity, worry about your kid Cpunch
Author CC_13 Posted June 24, 2003 Author Posted June 24, 2003 Uhhh. She had an abortion. she doesn't have a kid in the oven. Does that really screw with your head??
yagottahelp Posted June 24, 2003 Posted June 24, 2003 I don't think what she's doing is fair to you, but I would think, though I don't know from personal experience, that having an abortion effects the woman somehow negatively. Some handle it differently then others, but no matter how you look at it, it has to be somewhat tramautic. You may be associated with the pain for her and she is avoiding pain, moving to someone that makes her happy, not necessarily because you aren't a nice guy who wants her to be happy, but because she has feelings and emotions out of your control.
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