Elite Dragon Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Hey all this is my first post but i need some major help please its a long story tho so bare with me lol I met a girl thru work, a girl who i thought was not available as she had a kid and was living with her boyfriend..... turned out she felt trapped where she was, as she had moved here to be with her boyfriend but he turned out to be violent and never did anything with her and thier kid as a family, she started going out with me and we didn't hardly spend a nite. She came and lived with me for a week when her ex boyfriend decided to punch and strangle her infront of the kid....that week went really fast and we had a great time together...but by the end she was feeling homesick and decided to go bak to her original town (she now is 100 miles away) the 2nd nite after she left she was texting me saying she wished i was there with her because her little boy was crying and there was nobody there to help her out... i have been there to see her and she is moving bak here as she can't afford to live over there. Heres where it gets complicated lol, she is a jehovas witness and i am a spiritualist...she has been asking me recently for a sign from her baby that passed away 4 years ago almost to the day... she saw a medium in a taxi completely by accident and he told her a few things bout her baby that shocked and freaked her out completely, when she first told me she was fine bout it...then she texted me and said that because i was into this stuff too she didn't want to be with me anymore... i was shocked and tried to talk her round that nite and continued the next day via text... i asked if there was something else and she replied back "not at all! i love you!, just can't handle what you are. That nite was the first nite i didn't text her to say goodnite.... but at 2.02 am that nite i got a text from her that just said "nitey nite babe, sleep tight xx" since then she has said she will think about it... i really think she is making a mistake, after all we have so much in common and she loves me...what is the problem? any help greatly appreciated
Ocean-Blue Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 I'm a bit confused... She says she can't be with you because you are a "spiritualist" and she is a JW? If that is the case, you may have an uphill battle in terms of convincing her why you two should be together. Don't allow your emotions to cloud your thoughts. For some, religious beliefs run deep, and they don't easily change their stance (nor should they have to).
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