taylor3205 Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 (edited) Well me and my ex broke up just over two months ago. I still love him and want him back. We have been in contact off and on since, at first he was very cold and little contact then it became more and more. He starting seeing someone else (he told me), then last week he says he is not seeing them anymore. Although he says its over between us and will never happen again but would like to remain friends and do things now and again. I asked him if he would ever feel differently and he said who knows what might happen. I dont know what to do, I hate feeling the way I feel and my head tells me to just stop ALL contact and try to heal, but my heart wont let me. His the love of my life and I dont want to loose him forever. We had been together 9 years and living together for 7. What should I do? Edited January 31, 2008 by taylor3205
purplegurl Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 well you are definitely not ready for what he is suggesting (being friends and occasionally meeting up) in your situation i would have been forthright with him. You were together for a very long time and their shouldnt be any games between you. Tell him that you cant be just friends with him and if he wants something deeper he knows where to find you.then go into complete n no-compromises NO CONTACT. thats the only solution.if he misses you he'l come back,if he doesnt you would have moved on. wishing you lots of luck.
PinkRibbon Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 Strange you broke up and he has a girlfriend in less than 2 months??
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