joeapa Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 why do you think I feel like I have the desire to share my experience of personal relationships but never open my mouth
Author joeapa Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 I was broken up with and it hurts
Haohmaru Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 If you say something it makes it realer...like, I'm getting over a breakup, and I still love her...I don't want to say it because if I do, it makes it harder. You're doing the healthy thing, and your mouth will open when it's good and ready. You won't even have to remind it.
realgone Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 the last time i had a broken heart i kept everything inside and felt terribly isolated and alone for a long time. during this current heartbreak i've sort of cast a wide net, opening up to family and friends all over the place, even posting here now, which i'd never have imagined doing. i've been absolutely floored by how compassionate, understanding, supportive and willing to help people can be. talking about it helps. most people have experienced at least something similar to what you're going through, so don't be afraid. if there are people who respond negatively, and i've seen this, too, maybe you don't need to give them your energy after all, freeing some up for yourself and the people who are down for you.
Haohmaru Posted February 5, 2008 Posted February 5, 2008 Yeah, when you do get ready to talk, you're gonna see who your real friends are. The acquaintances, the buddies, the pals, are all gonna get really annoyed really quickly. That's part of the good thing about breakups. It clears up so much clutter besides just the relationship and you end up seeing everything much more clearly.
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