cj1988 Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 cj, this advice is only assuming the potential OW has an ounce of dignity and self respect. If that is not the case, then there was no 'weakness'(which is actually a strength) to exploit. But, even in that case, the tactic would allow you more chances to CATCH them, wouldn't it? Hello my trusted frined, but yes that is what I thought too. When I started getting suspicious of them, I kept her close and called her a lot and we e-mailed etc.....she was going back and telling my H everything I said....so, you see they were playing me the whole time and I thought I was being cleaver. She would lie for him and he would lie for her......now, they do not speak.....funny huh?
PandorasBox Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Do any of you guys go out in RL and tell everything you post on here.. I doubt it... I use this forum as everyone else is entitled to use it...right? You sure are entitled, I never said you couldn't post.
a4a Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Hello my trusted frined, but yes that is what I thought too. When I started getting suspicious of them, I kept her close and called her a lot and we e-mailed etc.....she was going back and telling my H everything I said....so, you see they were playing me the whole time and I thought I was being cleaver. She would lie for him and he would lie for her......now, they do not speak.....funny huh? fruedian slip I guess?
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 Well, I for one, am glad to hear this sort of thing. Especially since another poster (male) on another thread just said exactly the opposite... Honestly. Sometimes I get pretty confused about the whole deal. I would think if you take care of yourself, and stay fit/healthy, have an attractive personality, etc, that there would be available men no matter what age you are (as a woman). I would think the same would hold true for men, as well. But I guess some men (other poster) are only interested in younger women? Maybe so, but seems pretty limiting to me. Anyway, I think Betrayed is right. Wives should take heed any advice that comes from an OW. What's the saying? "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer...." There are men who do not go for older women... just like some women who do not go for younger men... it's a preference. To each their own... I prefer younger... and have no problem getting them. My fling in DR was 29, I didn't tell him my age but I told him my daugther was 32... then for the 2 weeks, he kept asking people how old they thought I was..
EnigmasMuse Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 I think this new woman friend you made on your trip, has other intentions as far as being your friend. But right now she will be your friend, probably a very good friend. Shes getting in good with you for a reason.
BetrayedMM Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 She would lie for him and he would lie for her......now, they do not speak.....funny huh? No, that's sad. If you replace the words 'for' with the words 'to', you might get an accurate picture of the relationship also. They never had anything to say to begin with, so they ran out of reasons to talk. Very empty.
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 I think this new woman friend you made on your trip, has other intentions as far as being your friend. But right now she will be your friend, probably a very good friend. Shes getting in good with you for a reason. Humm.. I'm not sure.. I seriously think we can become really good friends... the only problem is that we live quite far from each other. She is probably over 6 hours away. But she said she would visit this summer.
EnigmasMuse Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Humm.. I'm not sure.. I seriously think we can become really good friends... the only problem is that we live quite far from each other. She is probably over 6 hours away. But she said she would visit this summer. Good thing she is further away then.
Lookingforward Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Have to laugh, lizzie drops a thread into the forum like a stone into a pond, then retires to the bank to watch the ripples spread... you go, lizzie
mopar crazy Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 Not true in my case. What started out as me liking the xOW my H had an A w/ turned out to be disliked after I found out she hit on my H one night and it continued for years. She was the one that actually tried continuing the friendship after I found out she was pursing him. Every time I went to see H at work she would come over to see me. One day she literally RAN out of her office to come over and give me a hug! She would always ask me to do back up care for her child if her usual provider needed time off. I said no every time. She seemed nice, fun, outgoing, and we had things in common but when I found out she was hitting on my H that was the end of that, I didn't like her anymore.
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