nowjustme Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 I hope you had a good day and hope the night goes well also. Let us know how it was, since how I am going to do when my birthday comes around is one of the things I worry about. Happy birthday again! (you too Bummed)
backspn Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Happy Birthday! You will find someone to celebrate the rest of your life!
whichwayisup Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Happy Birthday! And HB to the rest of you Aquarians. My bday was this past Sunday.. Confused, I know today hurts without him..I do hope you're having a nice evening with friends and family.
PinkRibbon Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 ooohhhhh there are a lot of us dumped Aquarians out there....I wonder if that is some kind of sign???? just joking!
whichwayisup Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 I'm common-law married and as far as I know, he hasn't dumped me! LOL!.
PinkRibbon Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 :p I still think it is so funny. My only laugh of the whole day!:laugh::laugh:
br0ken_w0lf Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Happy Birthday, Confused! Hope you ended up having a great time. Yeah, it's funny how we like to torture ourselves by looking at things we know we shouldn't, but we have to try. Hope you have a great time on the weekend as well!!
Author Confused9 Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 I pretty much knew he wouldn't but I was hoping that he would. Makes me think he forgot about it. That day was special to him for 7 years...but that's all changed. I cried towards the end of the night becasue it make me sad to think he wasn't thinking of me and didn't wish me a happy birthday. But, I guess, since he has showed no sign of caring for me since he met OW I shouldn't be suprised. I am hurt though. VERY hurt. I had a nice birthday considering. Laughed with my girlfriends and had a better day then I thought I would. Like I said in an earlier post in this thread I met someone on Friday night and he called yesterday to say happy birthday. I am really nervous about dating still and will take whatever happens with him VERY slow...but it was nice to hear from him. Proves he's a nice boy. But I am very skeptical and will not open my heart too fast/soon. Thank you to everyone for your birthday wishes. Happy Birthday to you fellow Aquarians.
stampdaddy Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 you made it through your day, now it's my turn.. It's only 9:00 am and the anxiety is already starting to creep in.. BUT, I'll make it too....
Author Confused9 Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 oh Stampdaddy...HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! :bunny::cool: YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS!!! It's going to be hard, but you know what...it's your day! You are special today. Today is YOUR day!!! I hope that you have a wonderful day. Do you have any big plans? You will get through this. You will. You will be fine. You will have a wonderful day. Like someone said to me...you will find someone else to spend your birthday's with. Have a wonderful day!!!
JamesM Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Congratulations on your birthday! May you have many more. My birthday was this month also. So if we go back nine months that puts us in....April? Ahh, the first signs of Spring! Love is in the air! As for him, he may well have remembered your birthday. He may have considered texting you or calling. But he may also have hesitated or chickened out, because he did not know if you would welcome his wishes. Either way as hard as it is, it is part of moving on. May you have a great and happy year.
Author Confused9 Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 Happy Birthday this month - James! He may have remembered...he may not have. I am sure he will remember OW's birthday. He is done with me...I need to realize that. As hard as it is...UGH!
PinkRibbon Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 Happy Birthday Stampdaddy! Hopefully something good came your way today! Confused-I am sorry he didn't contact you. I hope karma kick him in the buttocks one day. Tomorrow is my birthday and we spent the last 6 together and here it is number 7 and no luck. I wish he would contact me but I think I'll save my wish.
Gunny376 Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 Happy Birthday Confused! Starting dating again? That's easy! Take it slow! Or as Lady Jane would say, "Andy Griffin and Hellen Crump" type slow! Get the lie detector and private investigative background checks early on (don't forget the credit checks) and make sure you follow through at six month intervals for oh..............say the first ten or fifteen years ! Never know what might turn up? And, Oh!!!!!!! "Waterboarding" when questioning him is A-OK! Good enough for the CIA? Good enough for us ~ right!
Author Confused9 Posted February 1, 2008 Author Posted February 1, 2008 Happy Birthday Pink Ribbon. Gunny, that's funny that you say that about credit checks, etc. I was like hounding him with all types of questions. I am SO suprised he even called me back. I mean I gave him the third degree. Oops. I guess he'll just have to earn my trust...if it gets that far.
PinkRibbon Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 Hey thanks Confused! The day started pretty great. Lots of gifts from my friends at work and then they are taking me out to lunch. I won't hear from XXX but I am not going to think about it I am just going to have a nice day.
Author Confused9 Posted February 1, 2008 Author Posted February 1, 2008 You go girl. Scr*w him!!! Let me know how your day is.
Trecherized Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 happy birthday to all of you! you guys have all done well on your days. i wish i'd be the same when mine comes.
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