Jmina Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 I write down everything i can, and i learn everything i can, It has improved my life and i will never stop. One day i will make good from writing to help others. It is my way of paying it forward. Someone once said to me "never ever give up" I remind myself of this when my ego wants to kick in and bring me down. (you know that nasty piece of work that sits on your shoulder and tells you to fear, to hold back, to doubt...that's your ego) There is no truth in my ego (or yours) so you can brush it off your shoulder and remember to go with the flow of experiences you are being handed, never give up, and keep striving for what you deserve. Sometimes it's best to forget how you feel and remember what you deserve! ♥ I'm only interested in things linked to the heart ♥ Life is hard when you resist or fight against everything it hands you. Life is much easier when you let the hard things just happen; to go with the flow, and know that its happening for the right reasons no matter how tough. ♥ Every single thing that has happened to us in our lives so far is from our own actions. We are exactly where we are because of ourselves. We have a choice about everything. From what we think about to what we talk about to what we do. Everything we do has an outcome; a consequence, an event, good or bad. Sometimes we do the same things over until it hits hard enough for us to want to change, sometimes it takes one sweep from under your feet for you to think twice about what your doing ♥ Knowing that we create everything around us by the actions that we take, even the things that seem unfair, we know that we can take the blame for every single action that we have done, there for gaining strength and insight and inturn disolving anger and resentment at others. As aware or unaware you might be to making your choices from simple to what seems involuntary to complex we can't blame others if we are the ones who have the power within to create our own world around us right down to the smallest insignificant conversations to the diseases that we endure. Learning to open your heart and forgive, learning to disolve resentment can and has disolved the most sinister of diseases such as cancer. A day of stress and anger can bring on illness, imagine what a life time of anger, resentment and bitterness can do inside your body. Every thing you do will have an effect and so lessons will be learnt and evedently different choices will be made. You don't take the blame for your actions because your a bad person or to feel sorry for yourself, you do it with strength and awareness and peace of mind. You gain control. ♥ Each day is another day to remind yourself about living with an open heart and an open mind. Disolve negative feelings by forgiving, going with the flow, accepting what has happened for good reasons. There is much more to our everyday experiences that a lot of us miss. ♥ Think of the hardest thing that you probably should do. That is what needs your biggest attention. Resistance to change is something a lot of people find themselves doing. Find what your resisting and go at it. ♥Everybody really only does their best at any given time. If they had different awareness or knowledge then they would do things differently. Remember that when your wanting to forgive someone. ♥ Happiness is a way of living, a choice. Not a destination in which to aim for. ♥ Gratitude creates happiness. It's easy to blame others or to find faults in our day, instead of stopping for a moment and being grateful for what you have. ♥Live by your authentic self. What your made up of. What your good at doing, what you know is to be true about the world around you, how you live and treat others. Not by what society or others or what you even label yourself to be. If you can balance your mind you will balance your body and your soul will then be at peace. Your life around you changes. You will attract people, money, good opportunities, and health. It's not a secret, there are no tricks, it takes a little work but it's not all bad when you only have everything to gain. It is there for the taking... why hold back? Love Jmina ♥♥♥
sandflea Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Thanks Jmina That's a keeper. [FONT=Tahoma][COLOR=#000000][/COLOR][/FONT]
Joe Taylor Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Great stuff to live by. Thanks for sharing. Every single thing that has happened to us in our lives so far is from our own actions. We are exactly where we are because of ourselves. We have a choice about everything. From what we think about to what we talk about to what we do. Everything we do has an outcome; a consequence, an event, good or bad. Sometimes we do the same things over until it hits hard enough for us to want to change, sometimes it takes one sweep from under your feet for you to think twice about what your doing.. I would add that what happens to us in our lives is also a result of our inactions. The more we act, the more we might fail, but failure is how we learn and grow as human beings.. and how we finally find the love we deserve. Thanks!
MattyTee Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 I would add that what happens to us in our lives is also a result of our inactions. The more we act, the more we might fail, but failure is how we learn and grow as human beings.. and how we finally find the love we deserve. Ahhh J, Where do you get it all from!! You are so very right. Joe, I agree with what you say too. There are different ways to live our lives, to use my favourite author's description: we can live as though every day is a lazy Sunday afternoon, we are comfortable and everything is safe. Occasionally things will go wrong and we'll search for that lazy feeling again. Or, we can find that sense of courage within, we can face a 'no', we can face a broken heart, we can forget all about being safe and live life to the full
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