DL2 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 I'm 16 .. and I'm into a student teacher [20 yrs old],which means he's a guy having an on the job training to be a teacher... so in literal terms=he's still a student. Now Ive been into him for er.. 4 months ? The thing is nowadays the stuff that are happening are actually convincing me that my feelings are being reciprocated ! I mean" evidence #1: He doesn't treat me like the other students. evidence #2: He took a stolen pic of me and I got pissed off and when i asked him why he said "at least when I leave .. well I wont be able to forget you" evidence #3: He does everything that I do... and usually ends up at the same place that I'm in. evidence #4: He always flirts with me... NOT IN THAT PERVERTED WAY ! anyways... I'm usually someone who'd say .. 'eww a teacher?!?' BUT with the way he is ... you just cant see him being perverted ... cause i can vouch for his character and such. I just want to know *points at the title* ... "WHAT IN CRAPS NAME IS GOING ON !!"
Never_Sure Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Hey DL2! Well, if you look at my first post, I too am in a similar situation with a professor. LOL, though it sounds like your situation is a little clearer than mine. I mean, if the man is taking pictures of you, and treating you better than other students, it seems pretty obvious that he likes you--probably as more than a student. However, you are only 16 and he is 20. I don't think it would be wise to attempt to form a romantic relationship with an adult when you are still considered a minor. Also, as a student teacher, acting upon any feelings he has toward you would be detramental to his reputation as a teacher and could get him into major trouble. My suggestion is to leave it alone. Don't pursue anything with him, and if he attempts to with you, ignore it, tell him to stop, or report it. Though, I don't think the latter is necessary if he backs off. Taking pictures of you against your knowledge is a little strange though...have you talked with your parents about this? You know, I was 16 not so long ago, and I know that when you are feeling things for people, you're not really interested in rationalizing it, and you very rarely take the advice of others, especially if it's the kind that you don't want to hear. I will say this: whatever you decide to do, be careful! You are young and he knows better. If things get out of hand, don't be afraid to tell others (i.e. parents, other teachers, etc.). Good luck!
Jilly Bean Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 You're a minor, hon. And to expect him to act on any attraction he may or may not feel for you, is crazy. It's not a matter of him losing his job, it's jail time. Forget about him, forget about trying to manifest anything here. It's just plain not right.
Star Gazer Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 He's not a student at YOUR school, he's in college. You're a minor. For him to engage in a romantic relationship with you would be highly inappropriate and ILLEGAL. Please, forget about this one.
Cobra_X30 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 I'm 16 .. and I'm into a student teacher [20 yrs old],which means he's a guy having an on the job training to be a teacher... so in literal terms=he's still a student. As long as you are underage.... any type of relationship could get him into massive trouble. If you care for him in any way. Back off until your 18. Honest, he may tell you that he can handle it... but its not true.
EYECANDY000 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 what you are doing is dangerous! You are jepordizing his career and you being in an investigation. Tell him that he needs to stop with the flirting, and you need to stop initiating it.
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