almosthere Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Alright, again I am a senior in HS, as is she. This girl has done "stuff", everything, with a few other guys, but has not really actually dated anyone. I am a real "good boy" and for that reason one girl thinks we wouldn't work, but its not like this girl knows either of us well. Anyway, she is Jewish (def. not real into it, though her parents might be), and I am Catholic (we go to a Catholic HS.) Friday I got her number from her (on IM as we hadn't been able to talk in school for a few days and I didn't wanna wait out the weekend). I asked her after a little talking "before i forget again, whats your number?" and she said right away "haha my number" and then immediately after that she gave it to me we talked a little after that said bye and that was it for that Her friends like me, and I am totally unsure on where she stands, though I think I am much more of a dating kid than a hook-up kid, and everyone is aware of that. Analyze that, the religion issue, and what you think her actions indicate, if anything at all. She is single, so I definitely can ask her anytime, but I need to feel this out a little more. Any help is appreciated.
Mistaken Identity Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 If her parents were really into being Jewish, she probably wouldn't be attending a Catholic school. Besides, the girl is obviously open-minded. I wouldn't worry about religion so early in the game. How do you know she's had sex with other guys? Did she tell you? Could these be nasty rumors? I think she would be able to tell if you were only after sex. Don't mention sex or get too physical. Show her respect. It's hard to tell whether she's attracted to you. Why not just take the risk and ask her out?
Author almosthere Posted January 30, 2008 Author Posted January 30, 2008 If her parents were really into being Jewish, she probably wouldn't be attending a Catholic school. Besides, the girl is obviously open-minded. I wouldn't worry about religion so early in the game. How do you know she's had sex with other guys? Did she tell you? Could these be nasty rumors? I think she would be able to tell if you were only after sex. Don't mention sex or get too physical. Show her respect. It's hard to tell whether she's attracted to you. Why not just take the risk and ask her out? Yea, I thought the same thing regarding religion. Not nasty rumors, just who she is. She like(s/d) smoking and drinking as much as a lot of guys and wants everything a standard HS guy does. But I am different. Thats why I think I am someone who she would DATE whereas the other guys were just spur of the moment nothing long term ya know? I wouldn't push at all, actually, if anyone would it'd be her. Yes she is beautiful;) As far as just asking her, yea, I want to. We havent had a chance to talk alot since I asked for her number. Would simply mentioning something to one of her real good friends be bad? Like if I said, "You might not expect this, but do you think asking ----- is worth a shot?" That would likely tell me what would happen, imo. Would this be acceptable? Thanks again.
Recommended Posts