wildheartfreesoul Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 I have a problem. Iv been in a really wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for a year now, and everything is still wonderful. He is understanding and loving and wise and forgiving and loyal. But there is another guy, i have been friends with him for about 4 years now and i really like him. We get along really well, he is very hansom, but the problem is...He lives in texas and i live in california, and I really want to meet him. But there is no way i can go meet him without A. lying to my boyfriend and hiding it from him (which i know will make me guilty and hate myself) or B. take a "break" from our relationship, which will make me jealous if he goes and has a fling too and of course is a very risky chance to take of actually getting back together. I have been talking with my texan friend about visiting him for a long time now, and i really want to, but i really do love my boyfriend and dont want to lose him. What in the world should i do??? I cant just forget about texas. I really really like him. Iv known him for a long time. but at the same time, is it really worth it to put my current relationship in danger to see if i really like texas enough to try a relationship with him? and is a relationship with him even possible????
EYECANDY000 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Are you asking advice on whats the best way to cheat without getting caught and feeling guilty about it?
Mahatma Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 DO NOT CHEAT OR LIE! If I was you, decide whether or not you really "love" your boyfriend as you said, or if you are ready to try other things. However, I know that if a girl told me she wanted to take a break, it would over right there permanently.
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