Lizzie60 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 He just came in for a few hours... We chatted then he dropped the news: They are expecting their first child this summer. He didn't want to tell me before (she's 3 months pregnant).. I don't know why but anyway... I am excited for him... I know he'll be a great dad... he is very happy and excited about it. He is wondering if that will make him stop 'cheating'... He keeps saying that he will end up being faithful one day... *yeah right* I don't think he'll ever stop...but he said he will.
whichwayisup Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Cool that he's gonna be a daddy... Lizzie, why not just say no to him if he comes around. Make it harder for him to cheat on his wife..
Meaplus3 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 He just came in for a few hours... We chatted then he dropped the news: They are expecting their first child this summer. He didn't want to tell me before (she's 3 months pregnant).. I don't know why but anyway... I am excited for him... I know he'll be a great dad... he is very happy and excited about it. He is wondering if that will make him stop 'cheating'... He keeps saying that he will end up being faithful one day... *yeah right* I don't think he'll ever stop...but he said he will. Hi Lizzie, Gosh... Where have you been girl?? I have missed reading your post's! My guess is that if he is still cheating... while wife is pregnant, than chances are he will continue. So I think "Yeah right" might me a good way to view him! AP:)
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 30, 2008 Author Posted January 30, 2008 Cool that he's gonna be a daddy... Lizzie, why not just say no to him if he comes around. Make it harder for him to cheat on his wife.. Yes I know.. I have a feeling that our relationship might 'shift' to a great 'friendship' .. he likes to chat with me... I know he learns from me, in a way... about kids, about life... We had no sex tonight... and we probably won't for a while. I had a 'little accident' during my vacation so I will not have sex until my results come back. I told him about it...
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 30, 2008 Author Posted January 30, 2008 Hi Lizzie, Gosh... Where have you been girl?? I have missed reading your post's! My guess is that if he is still cheating... while wife is pregnant, than chances are he will continue. So I think "Yeah right" might me a good way to view him! AP:) I was gone 2 weeks down south... He's not married and said they have no intention of getting married ...but my guess is that he might stop for a while but will eventually cheat again.
OpenBook Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Well, um, er, congratulations to him! Which MM is this one, Lizzie? Is it the one at your work? Or the hot young one? Or someone else entirely? I simply cannot keep up with you.
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 30, 2008 Author Posted January 30, 2008 Well, um, er, congratulations to him! Which MM is this one, Lizzie? Is it the one at your work? Or the hot young one? Or someone else entirely? I simply cannot keep up with you. Hahaha... he's my young hottie.
quankanne Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 sorry to hear about the "little accident" – hope things heal well! as for Hottie not mentioning the pregnancy right way ... well, some folks choose not to say anything until the first trimester passes, because that's often when miscarriages take place, and they may have thought it'd make more sense just to wait before sharing news?
Author Lizzie60 Posted January 30, 2008 Author Posted January 30, 2008 sorry to hear about the "little accident" – hope things heal well! as for Hottie not mentioning the pregnancy right way ... well, some folks choose not to say anything until the first trimester passes, because that's often when miscarriages take place, and they may have thought it'd make more sense just to wait before sharing news? Thanks.. I'm pretty sure there is nothing to worry about... I'll know in about a week. He knew the last time he came over, he just wasn't ready to tell me... Last night he said he had something to tell me.. he probably thought I would be devastated or mad or something but I was excited and sooo happy for them... I'm sure this child might put him on the right track... with a little help from his friend (me) . We'll see...
jaslene2009 Posted February 1, 2008 Posted February 1, 2008 Friends How Many Of Us Have Them ! I don't understand his reasoning for waiting to tell you. However, if it works you do what you must. I hope you have friends on the side of him. Since, he will someday be faithful (LOL). Yes I know.. I have a feeling that our relationship might 'shift' to a great 'friendship' .. he likes to chat with me... I know he learns from me, in a way... about kids, about life... We had no sex tonight... and we probably won't for a while. I had a 'little accident' during my vacation so I will not have sex until my results come back. I told him about it...
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