CJ77 Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 so i was supposed to be no contact with the ex...well since i got really sick he messaged me yesterday to see how i was feeling. So i dont know why i did this, i guess i just wanted to see his readtion but i asked him if he wanted to chill. he said he coulnt, but what about this weekend. I said well im working saturday and im off on sunday. He said ok lets do it, just decide what you want to do and let me know....now what do u all think I should do? should i go and see what happens or not even bother?
s_n_d Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 I think you should do what makes you happy. Lucky you. I wish my ex would text me or talk to me, period. Let us know how it goes.
PinkRibbon Posted January 30, 2008 Posted January 30, 2008 Feel great he is coming to see you this weekend. Clean the apartment, have some nice snack made and not the chips and dips....something creative. Get your self fixed up nice. Rent a super good movie. Have maybe some wine or good beer for him which ever he prefers. Heck go buy a new shirt or something that makes you feel pretty and WOW the socks off of him when he comes over!!!! Let him know what he is missing! Good luck and let us know how it goes!!! I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to have your opportunity! Make the most of it!
Author CJ77 Posted January 30, 2008 Author Posted January 30, 2008 Thanks guys!!!!! I'll let you all know how it goes!
Author CJ77 Posted February 4, 2008 Author Posted February 4, 2008 so not anything to tell....he blew it off..... we talked for a long time on wednesday and he never mention anything about it we talked last night still didnt mention it but i thought nothing of it as my ex is a very last minute kinda guy, like doesnt have a plan until literally minutes before you go out so today....nothing Now, even though i say we talked, I have been noticing he isnt the same towards me. He is very vague when he speaks, and seems a little distant and i cant understand why.. so i really dont know what happened...
vivrantflo Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 Sorry to hear what happend.. typical "ex" behaviour.. they love messing with our emotions.. just go right back to NC.. and stay there....
PinkRibbon Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 That bites. I would just ignore him now. That is just rude and he probably was hoping you wouldn't remember. I am sorry though.
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