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Maybe I'm being insecure


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I hung out with a girl the other day, and the next day I bumped into her walking around with another guy. I said hi and asked her what she was up to, but it didn't seem like she really wanted to talk. It was frankly pretty awkward. So I'm thinking of saying the next time I talk to her "hey sorry about the other day, hope I didn't ruin your game" in a joking way. Would that be funny or just insecure?

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Umm I would take it as an insecure way if I didnt feel a connection when we hung out. and if it was just like two buds getting together and we had a nice time out and we established that we were just friends and only friends thenI would take that comment as a joke

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Don't mention it at all.

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after we hung out she said that night she was going to go see a movie at a guy's place. I was like "oooh is it a date" while smiling. She said that it wasn't it was just with "some guy" that she met on her study abroad trip. But she was looking down when she said it. Is there a chance that her going to the movie was just a friend thing? Because I'm pretty conservative so I'm not sure I'd want to get involved with somebody who makes out/sleeps with a lot of different guys. She seems to mention going to guys places a lot, so I'm thinking it's just her way of hanging out with friends.

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Unless you try to pursue her yourself you won't have the option of deciding if you want to be involved with her.

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