peace_pipe Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 I have been posting a lot here lately. Some of you may be familiar with my situation. My now ex-girlfriend picked a fight with me 2 weeks ago. The fight started over her sister coming over, in which my girlfriend admitted she picked a fight for no reason! It blew up and bigger issues came out. Such as her (ex)boyfriend in jail? I asked her to make a stand on that issue and all she said is that she hasn't talked to him in a long time. She said that maybe our relationship didn't turn out to be what she expected. I told her this was because I coulnd't be myself because of her stand with the ex. Her response was that he gets out in 2 months. I ended the call, and I took her stuff, bagged it up and tossed in near her front porch. (nothing breakable) That same night, she called me @ 2:40 AM. I did not answer. The next night she called at least 10 times between 12 and 2 AM, I did not answer. I wanted to let things cool off. I have to work with this girl and I had no contact with her until Monday. On Monday, I typed her a letter. I just wrote some of my feelings down and told her I cared and miss her, but stopped short of telling her I loved her. She has not spoken a word to me since then. However, we have had a few awkward moments at work where I catch her from my perhiperal vision and when I look she's glaring right at me with "the deer in the headlights" look. I know the boyfriend in jail sounds bad; however, she has told me things such as she has never cheated before and that I caught her off guard. She was into me. Well, this boyfriend thing was always in the back of my mind. I had to stay around and see what happened with this girl. We had some really close and intimate times. We dated around 3 to 4 months. During this time I kind of held back a little bit, as in calling her, etc. I also held back on telling her my feelings. The other issue is her sister is always around, which you can read my other posts. Well, since this all happened I have been a lot more upset than I thought I would be. Even though I am the one that broke it off, I am doubting myself. I didn't realize how deep my feelings for her are until this happened. I feel like it could have been LOVE... I feel like I could have been a tad more understanding with the sister issue... I don't know if I should try to fix it, tell her how I feel, or move on.
AllInOne Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 PP, I don't know exactly what you should do, but I would think long and hard before you restart a relationship with her. It seems like she is being evasive about the ex boy friend. If you have already dated her for a while I would think she should be able to say that it is over with the ex, if she wants to be serious with you.
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