buck17 Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Hello all! this is my first posting and an important one. My girlfriend and I recently broke up. It was her decision. I really wanted to stick it out with and make it through the tough times. I (25) her (20). We had a lot of great times together, but some big rough times. We broke up in may of last year because of a drunken fight. Two weeks later we got back together and we happy for the most part up until about 3 months ago. She kept putting her friends first and denying me time with her. I would scold her about the matter and she would blow me off or hang up the phone. She once told me that she would never sacrafice or make compromises because she was too young. I know she loved me though. I was her first love and she lost her virginity to me. We would fight all the time about little stuff and I just wanted her to be more helpful in the relationship. I would let her walk on me and let her do it because I loved her. One night on the eve of my birthday I got drunk as hell with my buddies and finally just snapped and called her on the phone from the bar and said every nasty thing I could think of to her. Needless to say on my birthday she didnt get me a card an I love you, nothing. She broke up with me two days after that. Well as it came to be my ex-girlfriend got in contact with me via txt message the day after my birthday, so I had some txt messages left on my phone. When I went to see the girl I was dating at the time or should I say going to bid farewell to, I showed her the txt messages just to piss her off a little more. (by the way I have no feeling for the ex that sent the text messages). I was really hurt that day of the breakup two days after my birthday. I guess I was more hurt because she would not try than the acutal break up itself. this girl was the center of my world. She told me we were done for good and she would never give me another chance. I went back to alabama after the breakup and did more hunting. I did call her while I was there and asked her if she missed me and she said yes. Upon returning from the trip I had a hat of hers, lame excuse to see her, and called her to meet me outside to get it. One of the first remarks she asked was how was my ex. That made me feel a little better because I thought it showed her concern. I told her how much I loved her and want to get back with her and she told me the same ploy that we were over forever. Is there any hope of getting her back ever?
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