messiah Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 well i think me and my gf for 2 and a bit years have broken up. the thing is i say to her if we break up then i cant handle being friends. then she gets all upset. what is up with that! why does she get upset? she wants to end it. but saying i cant be friends hurts her. i dont understand!
jerbear Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Short reason is to keep you around as a friend but not relationship material. Perhaps in the future you two can be friends. Just tell her that. In the meantime, you two cannot be friends as you both heal and move on.
norajane Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 The charitable view: she cares about you and losing the friendship part of your relationship will make her sad (though she doesn't want to date you anymore). The cynical view: she will miss having someone around who builds up her ego and makes her feel good about herself. The jaded view: she is mad you won't simmer on the back burner in case she needs a back-up guy for something.
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