ARDriver01 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I'm divorced now. I'm 25 and I'm by myself. I've started doing a little bit of online dating. You know, the talk e-mail, back and forth. I haven't really had any on going communication. It seems like we'll have a great conversation or two and then I never hear from them again. Last Friday a girl found my profile and showed some interest. She's very, very Christian and absolutely stunning. I mean, she was talking about being a missionary. She said that my profile stood out to her as well and that she would love to know me more. I think that if I was to date her, It a big table swap from what I just came from. I would be dating someone that inspired me instead of the other way around. It could be really good for me. We talked a few times back and forth but now she doesn't write anymore. I never care about things like that. It happens so much that I write it off but for some reason it hurts now. I wrote her one really nice letter and now it's her turn but I don't know if she'll write back again. I suppose if anything, she may have inspired me to finally find a good church in my area that I just moved to. I would love to meet someone like her. It's what my spirit wants and needs. I thought I had that once but it was a total lie. I really think meeting this person has struck a few very sensitive nerves. I don't really know what to do.
AllInOne Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Hey ARDriver01, I have done a little online dating and in my opinion it is really hard to get and keep a women's attention online. She probably is getting lots of emails from other guys every day. If she doesn't respond soon just forget about her and move on to the next one.
Author ARDriver01 Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Yeah, women get all the attention on these sites. They each get a ton of mail everyday. I hardly ever get mail from anybody. lol If she doesn't respond. I'm just going to go find someone the old fashion way. You know, the produce section at the super market, or church.
Art_Critic Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I hardly ever get mail from anybody. In real life the men chase the women.. Same as online.. You have to make your profile stand out and be different than others and when you converse with a woman give her something or some reason to keep emailing you.. Make yourself interesting and use the heck out of humor.. the easiest way to get a woman online is to make her laugh and continue to do so.. well.. you of course do have to have some game too....They have to think if they don't email back you that they will be missing out...
j_hunt_12 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Hey, I hope you dont put that profile pic you have on your dating site... you look a little like a tool. No offense, I'm trying to say that as nice as possible. Yeah you definately have to make a good profile... try to be interesting . I've always been good about internet stuff for some reason, but I dont like to find girls that way. But my life is pretty interesting so it looks good on paper. Have some hobbies and stuff... surfing was one thing that always got me attention in my state, but in so cal it might be more normal. And yeah, Christian girls are great, just make sure you clean yourself up first, because now I'm the more "bad one" in my relationship and it always terrifies me that I'll slip and break my GF's heart, though it does helps me become a better person all the time. Be honest about your past from the beginning too, if you have a bad past or something... (bad is a long worse for Christians). peace
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