samsungxoxo Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 But should your partner even be asking you these stuff or even doing things like.... I did notice how he does seem to be so much on the health fitness thing and things clean. For example (ok this is embarrassing but here goes) he figure out that I sometimes constipate because one day he did asked ''By the way this is something personal but when do you take a crap b/c I looked on your bathroom trash and it seems you haven't, that's bad''. He went on explaning this to my mother, now that's super embarrassing. Then he went telling me the correct ways of how I should wipe myself when I use the bathroom. Or checked under my pillow or would open my closet to see if there were dirty clothes.
MakeLemonade Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I am trying to figure out how he can know that by looking in the bathroom trash? I smell a controlling neat freak or maybe just a nosy-body. OCD perhaps? Do you live together or just see eachother? Either way, this is just kinda weird. What the hell was he going to find under your pillow? An old tooth? Was he looking for food wrappers or something? WTF? And then having a conversation w/ your Mom about your constipation? He should be the one that is embarassed, that is really not his place AT ALL. Need to set some clearer boundaries I guess because he is obviously going to be the type to cross what are usually the unspoken ones.
a4a Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Are you poopin' in your trash can? None of his business if you are..... or not...... or when.....
blind_otter Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 When you take a crap is your business. Also, how neat you keep your room is your business. Unless you live together, he shouldn't be involving himself in these issues.
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Well lol, I did posted this on Enotalone too and I don't think it about appearances he cares but he passing out as a father figure role, even more by the checking on my bathroom trash (yes that was extreme) or a sign he could be having the OCD disorder (maybe). B/c he also focus on how I should lose weight. Well I did met him as a neat guy but the more time I would spend with him, he made it notice even more.
Art_Critic Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 When you take a crap is your business. Also, how neat you keep your room is your business. Unless you live together, he shouldn't be involving himself in these issues. Word... a very controlling person he is...
amaysngrace Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I still wanna know how he knows you poop by looking in your trash can?
MakeLemonade Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I still wanna know how he knows you poop by looking in your trash can? Me too! Answer please!
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 When you take a crap is your business. Also, how neat you keep your room is your business. Unless you live together, he shouldn't be involving himself in these issues. True we don't live together, in fact now we're on a long distance relationship. Yes I should have say none of your business but oh well. Maybe that's his way of showing how he cares about me, He did told me once how girls (meaning his ex's) would get angry whenever he told them about their room being a mess.
lindya Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 ''By the way this is something personal but when do you take a crap b/c I looked on your bathroom trash and it seems you haven't, that's bad''. Do you live in an area where you aren't allowed to flush tissues? That sounds grim - and your boyfriend's interest in your toilet habits sounds pretty Freudian. I seem to recall you were doing psychology. Is your bf a fellow student? He went on explaning this to my mother, now that's super embarrassing. Then he went telling me the correct ways of how I should wipe myself when I use the bathroom. Mmmm. What a turn on that must have been for you. It sounds like he might have a bit of a fetish. Ask him - or, better still, his mother, how he coped with the toilet training stage as a child.
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 It sounds like he might have a bit of a fetish. Ask him - or, better still, his mother, how he coped with the toilet training stage as a child. He did say once his mother taught him the correct ways of wiping himself. Well see the first thing he notice when I first met him was me poping a zit which he say it was bad b/c it leaves scars and me cutting the corns on my feet with a nailcutter, again he say it was bad, that I should use a stone specialize for corns.
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 I still wanna know how he knows you poop by looking in your trash can? I don't know, unless he actually searches through it.
Art_Critic Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 He did say once his mother taught him the correct ways of wiping himself. Did his Mom teach him to wipe front to back to?
a4a Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I don't know, unless he actually searches through it. How would a trash can regardless if you dumped it and went over it with a fine tooth comb reveal that you pooped or not? You cannot tell if I pooped by looking in my trash cans..... skid mark in the toilet bowl perhaps..... but I can blame that on the dog. for cripes sake please reveal the trash can poo connection!
Star Gazer Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 When you first met him you were popping a zit on your face and scraping the corns off your feet? How did you meet this dude?
amaysngrace Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Well that corn thing sounds right. You shouldn't cut anything off your body with a nail clipper except your nails. So I kind of agree with him on that. But don't listen to me. I'm OCD by injection. Do you think maybe he wants to go down on you and is concerned if you pooped after you washed or vice versa?
lovelorcet Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: I really want to know the trash can logic... How can he tell by looking in there, PLEASE ask him!!!
lindya Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I still maintain that Ailec must live in an area where you're not supposed to flush tissues. It happens in places where the plumbing isn't so good. In parts of Korea, for example, regardless of what's on them and however hot a day it might be, used tissues aren't to be flushed but must be placed in an open basket next to the loo. Ailec, if he ever suggests a holiday or a honeymoon in Korea you'll know what his agenda is. He'll be rummaging through those baskets like a happy dog.
a4a Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I still maintain that Ailec must live in an area where you're not supposed to flush tissues. It happens in places where the plumbing isn't so good. In parts of Korea, for example, regardless of what's on them and however hot a day it might be, used tissues aren't to be flushed but must be placed in an open basket next to the loo. Ailec, if he ever suggests a holiday or a honeymoon in Korea you'll know what his agenda is. He'll be rummaging through those baskets like a happy dog. What kind of a person would want to rummage through dirty poo wipes? and then chat about it?
Art_Critic Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Her profile says she is in Miami... Maybe her house doesn't have indoor plumbing...
amaysngrace Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 What kind of a person would want to rummage through dirty poo wipes? and then chat about it? She did say he's like a father figure. You know what I would do? I would go buy an adult sized diaper, put it on wearing just that and a tee shirt, poop in it, and when he walks in the door point to the diaper and say "poo"
whichwayisup Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 I really want to know the trash can logic... How can he tell by looking in there, PLEASE ask him!!! This has confused me as well?
Author samsungxoxo Posted January 31, 2008 Author Posted January 31, 2008 Ok I forgot to mention that he did explained both to me and my mother that he could figure out by smelling my bathroom. He did say that everytime he would come to my house, it wouldn't smell like I had taken a crap. That's another way since I don't have an odor spray. As for the looking in my trash he did say he wouldn't see, that all he seem to see was piss paper and not crap. As for flushing toilet yes we do have flush whenever we want to, the plumbing is good.
Art_Critic Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 Your BF is just plain weird and needs to worry about his own private parts... Why are you not upset at him for doing this and then speaking with your Mom about this ?.. I'd be very upset...
Meaplus3 Posted January 31, 2008 Posted January 31, 2008 But should your partner even be asking you these stuff or even doing things like.... I did notice how he does seem to be so much on the health fitness thing and things clean. For example (ok this is embarrassing but here goes) he figure out that I sometimes constipate because one day he did asked ''By the way this is something personal but when do you take a crap b/c I looked on your bathroom trash and it seems you haven't, that's bad''. He went on explaning this to my mother, now that's super embarrassing. Then he went telling me the correct ways of how I should wipe myself when I use the bathroom. Or checked under my pillow or would open my closet to see if there were dirty clothes. From what you wrote I Sense some control issues on his part.. and also some disrespect. AP:)
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