Spidr Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Hey again, Just to give you my state in brief again. I am 21 years old and currently i am in an LDR with a girl that came to my country for studies. We stayed with eachother for 3 weeks and then she had to leave back to her country. We have been together for nearly 2 months now. Everything is ok and we never had a fight. We love and trust eachother a lot. In less then 2 weeks I will be visiting her, and will be meeting her family and her friends. Our relationship is big priority at the moment. Now to get onto what had came to me. She has a friend which she told me about when we started to know eachother. She was honest with me and told me that once she had a crash on him. But after that they are treating eachother like good friends and nothing more (she refers to him as brother).I was assured about it.I was ok with that. Yesterday we have spent nearly a whole day talking, luaghing and she got to talk with my mother online too which she liked alot.She then told me that her friend isn't answering her anymore on the phone and stuff. After a while she told me that she was going to meet him. I said ok. Just a few mins after she left she messaged me on my phone to tell me that they will be going to see a motors event and that she will send me some images and videos. She didn't came online that night (maybe she went to meet the rest of her friends or something). This morning i woke up feeling confused. I do trust her with my eyes closed, but could something happen? Since she told me that she had crash on him? Knowing that he wasn't answering her phone messages I came to think that maybe he wanted her and he is being kinda jeolous. What do you think about it? Am i thinking in a wrong way? Thanks alot for your help again!
TMichaels Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Hey again, Yesterday we have spent nearly a whole day talking, luaghing and she got to talk with my mother online too which she liked alot.She then told me that her friend isn't answering her anymore on the phone and stuff. After a while she told me that she was going to meet him. I said ok. Just a few mins after she left she messaged me on my phone to tell me that they will be going to see a motors event and that she will send me some images and videos. She didn't came online that night (maybe she went to meet the rest of her friends or something). This morning i woke up feeling confused. I do trust her with my eyes closed, but could something happen? Since she told me that she had crash on him? Knowing that he wasn't answering her phone messages I came to think that maybe he wanted her and he is being kinda jeolous. What do you think about it? Am i thinking in a wrong way? I think you shouldn't worry. You spent nearly the whole day talking to her, she told you where she was going, with whom and why, and you're going to visit her in less than two week's time. Take a deep breath, try to relax, and think about how great it will be to spending time with her again. Best, TMichaels
Author Spidr Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 I think you are right....I am not usually like this, becuase I trust her. But sometimes distance plays trick on the mind. Thanks TMicheals
j_hunt_12 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 sometimes distance plays trick on the mind Very very very true. I always tell myself this whenever I feel unsure about something.
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