fun2b Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I have become very good "friends" with a man I used to work with. We worked together for 2 years and then I was laid off and started new employment shortly thereafter. We are both married and our relationship has always been fun, flirty and lots of chemistry by completely plutonic. I started devoloping feelings for him along the way but realized I would jeopardize my family so I have never said anything and I am ok with us being friends. Guys, my questions to you is, does this guy consider me a friend? He has very few friends none of which are girls. He calls me at least once a day along 3-4 emails. I do not even correspond with my girlfriends of 20 yrs that often. I am just a little confused and really do not know how to move forward as this continues. Are guys typically ok with having these types of relationships? Thank you for the input.....
norajane Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Does his wife know how often he communicates with you? Does your husband know the extent of this friendship and the feelings you've developed? If not, then I think you know that you're both crossing the line and getting into dangerous territory. Back off if you value your marriage, otherwise you're going to start thinking this crush means you're soul mates our something.
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