benstein25 Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Ok this may take awhile I met this good girl and my place of employment. Now we did work together for awile and she could tell that i was digging her so eventually all my flirting paid off and we hooked up. So everything was going good for awhile prolly like 6 or 7 months and then she starting expecting more out of me because she has a couple kids, and I didnt have a problem doing that I just didnt want jump right in with her kids I figured I would wait till they kinda showed some signs of opening up to me before and tried the father figure role. Which they did and I wasn't the most kid oriented guy but I did show then attention and hang out with them and such. Now Shortly after all this we started to fight alot she would clam up on me and not talk to me about her problems and stuff and I would ask her damn near everyday what the hell was wrong and she would always say nothing. Now this girl has always had communication problems with me for some reason because of her ex husband and the way he treated her. So we had are ups and downs which every couple has and kinda drifted along till around this past chirstmas when one day before chirstmas eve she tells me that she just wants to be friends with me for awhile because its better off that way according to her. Now this hit me like a bombshell so I called her back and conviced her to take me back and she did but next week our first day back at work I seen her in the morning I kissed her we both said I love u and went on with our work day. At least so I thought first break rolls around and she sends me a text saying that once again we are better off friends and she still wants to hang out with and to the whole friends with benefits things which i wouldn't have minded. So I called her and ask her why now and she gave several different reasons like she thought we werent going anywhere, or that I only came around when I wanted which is true, and that she really doesn't want a relationship right now because of the pressure involved keeping the other person happy , and she just wanted to focus on herself and her kids and try to get her life in order and so I tried to respect her wishes. So one week went by and we would talk everyday still and I would kinda hint around at the fact of us getting back to gether and I wrote 15 pages of all the **** I shoulda done regrets and the the things I did wrong I realized alot after she left so i ask her about what I was doing wrong in the relationship. So another week goes by I stop by her apartment and visit and bring up the us getting back together and I even begged for her back big mistake I no and she did say the she was thinking about it. So i left her house with high hopes about us so 2 days goes by and I heard she told somebody else at work the same thing bout us working our problems out and stuff. So now I'm kinda gettin pushy with her and she doesn't answer any of my calls or text for 2 days. So I seen her at work the next she was in a bad mood and I talked to her for a little bit and after work brought it up again and she texted me that I need to accept the fact that we are over and that I need to move on with my life. This doesn't make sense to me one day she does the next she doesn't how should i Handle this problem and is there any hope for us?
THE THRONE Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 1. Please break this up into paragraphs. 2. NO. There is NO HOPE for the two of you.
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