backspn Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Im doing ok this weekend after a tough few days after the "lets slow down" talk. She is doing 90% of the contacting and Im giving her space to figure out her feelings for me. On Friday I was up in the area, we live an hour away, but had to come home after the meeting. She called me just as I got home and asked me if I was still in the area, she wanted to get together with me. Since then we have talked everyday and twice yesterday. We had a date planned on Saturday but she was ill and we had to postpone it. I sent her flowers today for a little pick me up for being ill. The problem is I miss seeing her and it has been 6 days. Women, how would I handle this situation: I want to see her, I miss being with her and I want to go out again soon but the ball is in her court.
TigerCub Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Doesn't seem like there is much you can do. If you persue her more, then she'll be annoyed. You sent her flowers cuz she was sick, that shows you care, but if the ball's in her court, all you can do is see what she does next. You say you miss her and I understand, that is tough, but if she wants her space (that's what I understood from "the lets slow down talk" mention), then you need to show her that you can respect her wishes, that you listen when she talks to you. Good luck
Author backspn Posted January 27, 2008 Author Posted January 27, 2008 She called right away after the flowers came today, told me how sweet it was and how pretty they looked. She said it cheered her up alot. We set a date for tomorrow and we should have fun. She has called 2x today so far. She said she was talking to a neighbor and she asked if that was her boyfriend that she had seen her with. She answered yes, thats the guy Im seeing.
Lauriebell82 Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 She called right away after the flowers came today, told me how sweet it was and how pretty they looked. She said it cheered her up alot. We set a date for tomorrow and we should have fun. She has called 2x today so far. She said she was talking to a neighbor and she asked if that was her boyfriend that she had seen her with. She answered yes, thats the guy Im seeing. Aww, that's great!! Maybe she is going to start coming around. BUT, don't take this as a sign to speed things up again. The ball is in her court, so keep it there for now.
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