underpants Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I should listen to more peaches. In celebration of the glorious penis. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BL8FYxtrRj8&feature=related I hope it all comes together for you Carrot.
Author carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 I should listen to more peaches. She's an animal! I think we're going to be okay. I think we're going to be better than okay. We'll be yummy and not bad. Just as soon as he gets his head out of his a$$$. Carrot
Author carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 And as soon as I accept that there's nothing I can do or give to GD. There's nothing he wants from me other than just being myself and loving him. That's a tough one. How am I going to not give anything at all?
cant let go Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Since words are beyond the comes when called team.... http://custom.cavemanagement.com/dropbox/k/Peaches_ImpeachMyBush/09%20-%20Peaches%20-%20Slippery%20Dick.Mp3 wtf...lmao
Jmina Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Carrot... sex makes things confusing. Its not going to help you because it is another action wich WILL have a response in your life. if it is JUSTthat your horny go get a vibrator. if it is the gentleness making love that you miss you need to do the soul searching in yourself first every action has an outcome and we have the power within us to make it that way. we are were we are right now because of our own actions. everything we say, do, think, then consequently feel is because of ourselves. which is also why it makes sense to take blame for our own actions and be at peace with it and feel strong about it becaues you know you have gained from it. i would say continue to disolve the negative in your life from your past actions and create positive outcomes rather than fix your emtpyness with sex. one night stand isnt going to do much if your very safe, but then it turns into another, and so you see the pattern and you see part that is missing from you that needs creating. self love. really, go get a good vibrator
Trialbyfire Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 carrot, what's with the self-sabotage? Hooking up with someone else might cure your itch for...three minutes. You know it's GD that has gotten you going in that direction again and it will take GD to get rid of the itch...for maybe one night.
Nemo Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Ask him for a life-size mold of his Giant Dick. Most guys would be very flattered, and only too happy to oblige. Then you can have most of the benefits, without any of the hang-ups.
Author carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Jmina, It's not a vibrator need or a warm fuzzy need. Tri, yeah. That raw hunger for the guy is pretty overwhelming. It probably would be dampened by the danger-power-release-fun of screwing around elsewhere but you're right that would be temporary. I'm going to need reminders to stay the course or whatever because I'm not making the next move and it feels like it might kill me at this very moment. This morning he made the barest flicker of eye contact and then walked by me like I didn't register. [slap] Carrot
underpants Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 This is infuriating news. Did you two ever talk about things after your last encounter. Or, are you waiting for him to bring it up?
Author carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 I didn't think it was as bad as infuriating but it's nice to know someone is infuriated on my behalf. It's only been a couple days. It seems like a year in the life of Carrot but I know it's just a couple days. Besides, I'm treating it/him like someone new. So no, we didn't talk about it after. We kissed and drove into the office in separate cars. The subject hasn't been raised though we've talked about some other inconsequential things. Light. Friendly. Meaningless. It would have been rather fantastic if he'd been falling all over himself to be with me after. This is still in the realm of acceptable and even normal guy behavior after sex. I think he should have said something but then, I didn't say anything either. The next move must be his. Next meaningful non-business related contact, next romantic anything, next invitation, whatever. It must be initiated by him. I don't know why I made up this rule. It seems asinine now that I'm writing it all out and reading it. What do you think? Meanwhile I have Exlax and another would-be Carrot wooer coming on strong. It gives me fits. They're on the prowl and so the attention is thick and perfectly charming at all times whereas GD is hanging out in his cave. Nothing charming about it. But when he comes out of his cave, and he will, he won't be prowlishly charming attentive. He'll be real and attentive. Harrd. This is harr-arr-ard. And I feel like a two year old throwing a tantrum. I have no patience or concept of waiting. I want it. I want it now. Carrot
jdeedee Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 If you haven't gotten it in a few days I think your rule may be bendable. This is, of course, after a good weekish of waiting. (My own humble opinion here)
Trialbyfire Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 carrot, tell him to grow the hell up! To ignore you after intimacy, is very insensitive and juvenile.
Author carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 I'm not arguing Tri but is it really outside the realm of reasonable for two people to have sex and then not see or talk to each other for a couple days?
sedgwick Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Carrot, you're way too awesome to be making excuses for this guy and letting him treat you like anything other than the prize you are.
Author carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Sed, I get that and it's all well and good to walk around feeling entitled but it's good to have a grip on reality too. Maybe we need to hear from the man camp? I don't know. If it were me thinking like me but in GD's place, two days wouldn't be a big deal to me. If you get me? Carrot
Trialbyfire Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 I'm not arguing Tri but is it really outside the realm of reasonable for two people to have sex and then not see or talk to each other for a couple days? They don't normally walk by and not acknowledge someone...
Author carrotgirl Posted January 29, 2008 Author Posted January 29, 2008 Tri, yikes! Sorry! GD stopped by my office to talk and then I got caught up in life. I should have updated sooner. Sorry. Sorry. He was trying to stay low profile at the office. He wasn't trying to slight me in the slightest. Like I said, there are kinks to work out. And I have a confession. I went out to lunch with Exlax. I knew GD listened when Exlax asked me what I liked to eat "around here" this morning so I accepted his invite. GD happened to be walking into my building when we were heading out to lunch too. Was that very very bad? Carrot
underpants Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Hard to say, Carrot. Do you think it was very bad? If GD already dislikes Exlax and he is a cave dweller then it might push him further away. (It would me, then again, I think I prefer the cave) I kind of feel bad for Exlax's girlfriend. Maybe you should lay it on the line with GD and tell him what you would like to happen between you two with room for acceptable compromise on both sides. The uncomfortable talk. Then you can plan your romantic future better? I wish some guys would chime in and give an opinion.
Author carrotgirl Posted January 29, 2008 Author Posted January 29, 2008 Unders it was a very proper lunch where we mostly talked about Exlax's girlfriend and her very lofty pedestal I have the impression Exlax is working out the last of his issues before popping the question. I think they will be just fine.
underpants Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Oh okay then. You are in a difficult position. Seeing all kinds of possible ramifications and not knowing how it will all turn out. I don't know what to tell you. What would Peaches do? Are there some teaches of Peaches that would apply?
Author carrotgirl Posted January 29, 2008 Author Posted January 29, 2008 Are there some teaches of Peaches that would apply? Oh god I don't want to think about anything related to sex!
Nemo Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Oh god I don't want to think about anything related to sex! Have you ever lubricated a carrot? Do you like it rough, or would you peel it?
Author carrotgirl Posted January 29, 2008 Author Posted January 29, 2008 Have you ever lubricated a carrot? Do you like it rough, or would you peel it? Incest? Tempting but no thanks.
Nemo Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Incest? Tempting but no thanks. You don't have to do a boring orange one. http://www.carrotmuseum.co.uk/photos/circle%20of%20carrotslge.jpg
Always Wrong Posted January 29, 2008 Posted January 29, 2008 Try giving him the cold shoulder too. I've noticed that a womans cold shoulder is way colder than anything I have at my disposal. Or maybe you're just too hot! Men usually aren't very good at the cold shoulder. Maybe he has a recessive female gene! lol
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