underpants Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Fight or Flight. He is cute and nice. He has this quirk that is so endearing to me that I dare never tell him because he will become self aware. It is adorable. I completely embarrassed myself by attacking him like a feral cat in heat and am handling this by hiding in my cave. He is going to figure out how awful I am. Acts of self sabatoge fufill this thought. How do you calm the anxiety to avoid doing completely silly things? The scary thing is that it is more comfortable to be scared then to not be scared. That is messed up. Oh Heavens.
amaysngrace Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 He probably dug that you attacked him like a feral cat in heat. Way to go Tiger! You know what you should do? Stop thinking so much. If he's not in your sight then don't put him in your head. Go watch a movie, take a walk or read a book or something. Do anything that'll help you quit thinking so much.
Trialbyfire Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Feral cats can have great qualities, if they want to stick around. Don't bolt unders. Instead, relax and enjoy the feelings. No more beating yourself up!
Author underpants Posted January 27, 2008 Author Posted January 27, 2008 Thanks, I will go for a run. Maybe if I get that angsty feeling out of my system I will be more level headed. (maybe not ) Feelings.....eeeewwwwww.
amaysngrace Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Just let it come naturally Unders. If it's meant to be it will be. Just be cool. Just be you. And if he's gonna sit in judgment of you for being yourself then screw him. Oh yeah...ya already did. But don't worry about it so much. Was it fun? Did you like being with him? Was it the most earth-shattering experience of your whole life? If not then he's not perfect either. Really...care more about what you think of him than what he thinks of you. You don't know what he's thinking and to even try to is just plain silly. It can't be done. And if he thinks lowly of you well then too bad for him. We know you're great!
Nemo Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Just let it come naturally Exactly. Biting is not likely to accelerate the process, despite the obvious link to enthusiasm.
MystifiedByMen Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Sounds like you’re excited. Kudos! It’s really rare that a guy can make me feel that way so enjoy yourself!
Nemo Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Adorable quirks are the best. Curved penises spring to mind.
oppath Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Curved penises spring to mind. You could screw around corners.
amaysngrace Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 You could screw around corners. Prostitutes have that ability too.
carrotgirl Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 I completely embarrassed myself by attacking him like a feral cat in heat and am handling this by hiding in my cave. Any one who has common sense will remember that the bewilderments of the eyes are of two kinds, and arise from two causes, either from coming out of the light or from going into the light, which is true of the mind's eye; and he who remembers this when he sees any one whose vision is perplexed and weak, will not be too ready to laugh; he will first ask whether that soul of man has come out of the brighter life, and is unable to see because unaccustomed to the dark, or having turned from darkness to the day is dazzled by excess of light. And he will count the one happy in his condition and state of being, and he will pity the other; or, if he have a mind to laugh at the soul which comes from below into the light, there will be more reason in this than in the laugh which greets him who returns from above out of the light into the den. Plato: The Allegory of the Cave, from The Republic * * * * * MARLIN All right, we're excited. First day of school, here we go. We're ready to learn to get some knowledge. Now, what's the one thing we have to remember about the ocean? NEMO It's not safe. MARLIN That's my boy. So, first we check to see that the coast is clear. We go out and back in. And then we go out, and back in. And then one more time--out and back in. And sometimes, if you wanna do it four times-- Andrew Stanton: Finding Nemo * * * * * And what Tri said. Mrrrowwrrr! Carrot
johan Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 (edited) Hang in there, underpants. If the guy is worth having around, he already can see past your insecurities. And he should understand if it takes a while to work the baggage out of your system. A guy who cares for you won't be one tenth as critical of you as you are. Edited January 27, 2008 by johan
Nemo Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 We go out and back in. And then we go out, and back in. And then one more time--out and back in. And sometimes, if you wanna do it four times-- I loved the birds and the bees talk! It's good to get these things over with when they are young.
Author underpants Posted January 27, 2008 Author Posted January 27, 2008 And if he's gonna sit in judgment of you for being yourself then screw him. Oh yeah...ya already did. That has not transpired. MARLIN That's my boy. So, first we check to see that the coast is clear. We go out and back in. And then we go out, and back in. And then one more time--out and back in. And sometimes, if you wanna do it four times-- Carrot Oh gosh, I'm am the neurotic Marlin clown fish. Hang in there, underpants. If the guy is worth having around, he already can see past your insecurities. And he should understand if it takes a while to work the baggage out of your system. A guy who cares for you won't be one tenth as critical of you as you are. This is probably true.
carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 So are you going to come out of the cave? Carrot
Author underpants Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 So are you going to come out of the cave? Carrot I am venturing out of my cave temporarly tomorrow. Then back in and back out...and 4 more times if I need to.
amaysngrace Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Underpants, I thought you said you attacked him like a feral cat? I totally took that as you got laid. My bad. Now I gotta go to dictionary.com and look up 'feral cat'
Ariadne Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I completely embarrassed myself by attacking him like a feral cat in heat and am handling this by hiding in my cave. He is going to figure out how awful I am. Ok, so you are desperate and you haven't had it in a while. He should be able to figure that one out. Good luck.
Author underpants Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Underpants, I thought you said you attacked him like a feral cat? I totally took that as you got laid. My bad. No worries, I did attack him, and things were broken, scratched and bitten. Yet somehow I retained my reborn innocence. I feel like I should apologize. That is what you get when you go on a date with a sex starved maniac. We both did acknowlege that it was fun. I just have to figure out how to deal with things after that incident. I need to tone it down.
amaysngrace Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 That is what you get when you go on a date with a sex starved maniac. Are you referring to yourself? If you are I don't think that makes you a sex starved maniac. I think that makes you one hot mama.
carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 reborn innocence Is that like when you go to the Virgin Islands for recycling? That is what you get when you go on a date with a sex starved maniac. Or Carrot We both did acknowlege that it was fun. I just have to figure out how to deal with things after that incident. I need to tone it down. What are you tapped? Where is Underpants and what have you done with her body? Carrot
Author underpants Posted January 28, 2008 Author Posted January 28, 2008 Is that like when you go to the Virgin Islands for recycling? :lmao: good one. What are you tapped? Where is Underpants and what have you done with her body? Carrot Oh no, not tapped. He has no idea. Just scared. Many scareds. One of which is a repeat performance. I am going to be good. I am going to be good. I am going to be good. *wonders what fun things are in his kitchen* Nice counter space.
carrotgirl Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 Nice counter space. Whew. You really had me going.
Trimmer Posted January 28, 2008 Posted January 28, 2008 I wanna know what the quirk is - why has no one asked yet? And 4 times out and in isn't enough. Even I can last much longer than that.
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