evolni Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 hey guys.. noob here i think i voiced my question wrong but anyway, i can explain here. so my boyfriend and i have been in a great relationship for almost 1 and 1/2 years now.. the only bad thing about it is we've kept it in the dark.. from our parents. mostly because my parents would dissapprove and give us no chance at all and.. well its a long story. now, we've gotten away with alot.. like going out without them knowing and calling when they arent home.. basically just sneaking around.. up until the other day when we got so close to being found out. my parents are quite strict and they found out i wasnt at work when i told them i would be (i was with my bf) but i lied and told them i was alone at some park. they bought it.. but until that point, neither of us realised how much risk we were taking, and even though we got to see each other, it wasnt fun when the thought of being caught and taken away from each other wasnt a nice one. so we decided we'd be good and not take so much risk and actually being caught out.. its proving quite hard.. as it should be. but how can i move past that? in our relationship, hes the patient voice of reason and im the impatient, i dont care i want it now person.. so its usually me whos close to break down and him being the one to tell me it'll be ok. he seems ok with it because he has to be strong for me so i wont lose hope, but i want to be strong too. he tells me when he says he misses me, he doesnt see it as a forlorn i miss you but more of an anticipation of the next time he'll see me where im mopey.. i want to be like that. part of me is afraid ill lose him becase he's so important to me and he's one of few people who i've felt have really given me all they've got and its hard for me to believe that sometimes.. and im scared that this whole, lets lay low and not see each other or talk as much will do something to us.. please help me guys..
malaclypse Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Oh, Romeo and Juliet... You don't write how old you are. If you are not a teenager anymore, maybe you should just move out and get your own flat. You can't let your parents control you all your life....
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