troubledintn Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 hi i need advice please. i was married for over thirteen years and in the last year and a half i lived an open marriage with my ex hubby. i met a guy in november of 2006. he was married and i was married. he was the last guy i hooked up with while living the lifestyle with my ex hubby. we have been together for 14 months and i love him. most of the time we are so happy. except for when we argue over my past.. he is leaving to go to korea and wants to break it off with me .. im sick over this and i know on my part that i am totally in love with him and have been and can be tota:love:lly faithful to him while he is gone. i need advice...
Fettman Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Not having any experiance with relationships or anything I have little to say on this. But I do think if he get's jealous now, it might end up worse when he leaves and isnt near you and such. I would think the best thing for you to do is break it off with him, why be in a relationship with someone that can't trust you.
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 He probably cant trust you because he believes you were a cheater. If she cheats with him , she'll cheat on him as simple as that. You say you can be faithful to him while he goes away. You had an open marriage with your husband while you was still married. Does that policy exist with the new boyfriend right now? How would you feel if he said, I wanna bang other chicks while still being with you. He doesnt have any faith in you, because your actions before inspire none. Sorry to be so blunt but hey it is what it is.
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