sugahoney Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 Im new to LS and have this problem with a guy I been seeing for the past 5 months. We work together and had been dating for 4 months when he said it doesnt feel like we are getting any closer so he wants to be just friends. I took this as a sign to back off and give him some space. Things didnt really change much we kept doing what we usually did with each other. Then earlier ths month he tells me that he doesnt know who to express himself around me, so he just distances himself from me sometimes. He has now stopped calling & talking to me as much as he used to, but when we did talk recently he said he really likes me and likes hanging out with me but i doesnt know how things would be if we were to get really serious. This is what he tells me after i decided to give him his space and I stopped trying to get closer to him. I feel as though I have made a mistake by not letting him know how i really feel earlier. I dont know what i should do, should I just back off all together or should i still hope.
Mistaken Identity Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 We work together and had been dating for 4 months when he said it doesnt feel like we are getting any closer so he wants to be just friends. Did this mean you weren't having sex?
MystifiedByMen Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 I would take it as if he wanted to keep his options open. He sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. I'd be careful because it sounds as if he has no clue what he wants.
Mistaken Identity Posted January 27, 2008 Posted January 27, 2008 I'm still confused by him saying you guys weren't getting any closer, and you saying you should have told him how you felt. Was he telling you how he felt and you weren't reciprocating?
Author sugahoney Posted January 27, 2008 Author Posted January 27, 2008 he never really told me how he felt and as I was so unsure I didnt say how i felt either. He only told me how he felt recently.
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