shayna Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Hey all Anyone have any suggestions as to how to get by the hope of reconciliation that one has after ending an LTR (9 years) that you really wanted to maintain despite issues? We still see one another from time to time through friends (or when I very occasionally go places I figured he'd be- yikes!). Almost 7 months now, and I feel the same as the day we ended it. My life, despite all the great friends I have and med school to work at, is so empty without him by my side. Yeah- codependent I know but I'm sorry- I loved being part of us! Now, I just float from day to day hoping the pain and loneliness will subside and that I will stop aching for him one day soon. But I can't seem to do this and friends are getting either seriously concerned or are tired of me. Sigh.
ANGUISHEDandBROKEN Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 I feel for you... My 9 years ended 3 months ago and I also feel like you do but deep down inside I am getting the wake up and forget reconciliation call... Its rough, feel like s**t, but know ill be better someday....you gotta do the same.... It kills me to know that I wont be a part of her life after so much planning together.... Dont worry.... he´s still thinking of you and the mistake he might have made will linger for a long time in his head. Hope this helps....I need it for myself also...
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