lyndsay1314 Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 i know my question is similar to a lot posted here but i just need to vent a little i'm 38 and my ex fiancee of 3 months is 40 almost 41. i left him because he was an alcoholic and was given the choice between the 2 of us, he chose me but fell off the wagon several times and i knew this would be ongoing, i will say he was and is the love of my life,when sober we were wonderful together but when he was drinking he was very verbally abusive. after i threw him out he put me threw hell for 3 weeks crying, begging, he was sick, missed time from work, then all of a sudden it seems over night he went to the bar met a married women who was their because her husband was cheating and she had just found out, well to make a long story short in a week she had left her husband and 2 teenage kids and moved in with him, so within a month he was devastated to living with someone, i was floored and went through all the 'he couldn't of loved me' mad,hurt. this happened the end of nov. up untl 2 days ago we talked almost daily or text, alot of it was fighting because i wanted to try and work it out, he said no he was in love and happy, but that he still loved me ,thought about me all the time and missed me. and that everytime he saw me he just wanted to grab me and hug and kiss me. 2 days ago i told him if he wasn't coming back we couldn't talk anymore, he got mad called me a few choice words and i told him she was a married women with a lot of baggage still and he was in for a long haul yet but he says their happy, does this sound like a rebound and he's not thinking of me because she's constantly their or do you think he really is in love after only a few weeks of knowing her before living together? i haven't called or text him in 2 days and neither has he, i feel sick, sad and so depressed i just want to hear his voice but i'm waiting to see if he will call me, if not within a week or so i guess he won't and should i text him just to say hi?
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