tinker Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 I posted a few weeks ago about my now ex breaking up with me a few months ago. It seems like some days are pretty good, and some others are just horrible. Im almost positive that she has hooked up with a couple of guys since we have broken up, and its driving me absolutely insane!! I don't have any hard evidence, and I don't really want any, but I just know before we were together she used to go out alot, and sometimes hook up with guys, and the last I spoke with her she told me shes been going out more than she has in years. I know I that doesn't mean anything, but I just keep thinking about guys that shes either been with, or will be with in the future. I think this is really hurting my process of trying to move on. Its only been a little over 2 months, but I just don't want to care about what shes doing with other guys anymore, but I can't help it. How has anyone dealt with this before because I woke up today extremely depressed, so I could use anything positive. Thanks guys
PinkRibbon Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 I am sorry you are having a bad day. I honestly don't know if it will get better but all we can do is hope and look forward to a future without pain. I do understand because my husband was always with someone before he met and they all were around 8-10 years younger than him. So I have the image of him now with someone because our bed did not even cool down since I have an active imagination.And it has been 4 months here. But I hope it will get better for you. Not much I can offer in the way of hope though. Good luck.
sandflea Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 I posted a few weeks ago about my now ex breaking up with me a few months ago. It seems like some days are pretty good, and some others are just horrible. Im almost positive that she has hooked up with a couple of guys since we have broken up, and its driving me absolutely insane!! I don't have any hard evidence, and I don't really want any, but I just know before we were together she used to go out alot, and sometimes hook up with guys, and the last I spoke with her she told me shes been going out more than she has in years. I know I that doesn't mean anything, but I just keep thinking about guys that shes either been with, or will be with in the future. I think this is really hurting my process of trying to move on. Its only been a little over 2 months, but I just don't want to care about what shes doing with other guys anymore, but I can't help it. How has anyone dealt with this before because I woke up today extremely depressed, so I could use anything positive. Thanks guys Yeah - that's tough. I know how it can be a roller coaster. Hang in there, because after every down, there's an "up". After a while you'll anticipate it, and in a while everything flattens out. Try getting into the gym and working out. Crank up your headphones, and hit the weights, or the treadmill, or whatever, and work the stress and sadness out. You'll feel great after your workout, and you never know who you might meet!
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