joeyku Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 okay me and my ex have been broken up since august, and she pretty much didnt want anything to do with me afterwards despite us having a really beautiful relationship... she broke my heart hardcore... im still not over it but lately, my friend told me that my ex told her that shes been missing me and she misses our closeness and the trust we had... but she doesnt want to be back together though... not sure if thats true or not maybe shes being sneaky:o... but... after what she put me through... well... it was horrible... idk... but it was... should i get involved? and what is she doing? what is she up to? any help? please... much appreciated u guys have helped me before. thx for that
ElvenPriestess Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 She probably misses certain ASPECTS of you two, having some one around she trusts, like you said. I think she's feeling lonely, and just misses the "us" feeling. Now that doesn't mean that she wants to be with you again, it may, it may not, but I would guess not. She's just fond of something that isn't in her life anymore. My point is I think it's the actual feelings she misses. Not necessarily being with you. Alot of people who break up go through that "I sure miss what we USED to have, the GOOD parts that WERE there." Well of course there were good times, but lest we not forget about why it is what WAS and not what IS. I don't think you should concern yourself with it though, don't worry about the emotional battle she's dealing with, you have your own to work through right?
FooledOnce Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Oh man! That's the worst. You try to move on and put her out of your mind, then you hear something like that and you start thinking about her 24/7 again. Know that if you want to get back with her, you're opening yourself up for even more pain. Either being rejected or getting back together and then getting dumped and put through the whole thing again. "A broken relationship is like a broken mirror; better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it"
ElvenPriestess Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 "A broken relationship is like a broken mirror; better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it" I really like that quote.
Author joeyku Posted January 26, 2008 Author Posted January 26, 2008 (edited) she says she misses me... this is a direct quote that she said to my friend... "im not trying to be his gf again.. i just miss having him in my life. i miss the trust. iv tried to forget him... and havent... =[ hes really a great person." but yea thats what she said all i said was i dont know and ill think about it What do i do from here? and does that quote change anything u guys said? Edited January 26, 2008 by joeyku
82knightrider Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Maybe She hasnt found anyone better yet.Just let it be.
ANGUISHEDandBROKEN Posted January 26, 2008 Posted January 26, 2008 Id say....go and see her. Wish I was in your place in a couple of months... Thing is, dont be needy, be there like youre just her friend because you know youre not having her back, and make sure she sees that thats HOW u are there... I deep down inside know Ill never be together with the love of my life again....but as friends I hope we can make it someday.... Or just forget what im saying because youre gonna get burned and its gonna hurt plenty again..... sorry....
Author joeyku Posted January 26, 2008 Author Posted January 26, 2008 Maybe She hasnt found anyone better yet.Just let it be. she thought she found someone better until he cheated on her something she knows i would have never done to her idk ill just let things play out
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