ElleVado Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 My ex, who ended our 7 year relationship on Saturday, has started sending texts and has called 3 times in the last 12 hours. He ended our relationship because he wasn’t at all ready as me to settle down. Part of me laughed. Like seriously, what is he thinking, is this guy nuts?! A small other part of me has the urge to call back, but I’m not giving into that. I have not contacted him in any way. Right after the break, I knew he wasn’t home so I went over and left all his things and keys there. He has not yet returned my things. And now he is calling with the silliest excuses, at first it was one text saying he hopes I’m ok, which I thought was nice… And now he’s leaving long voicemails, rambling on about nothing important, and asking me to call. Even though I’m doing really well about this in some ways, in other ways, it’s so hard. My head keeps saying he’s not the one, it’s not meant to be, and to move on without ever looking back. But my heart still wants to be with him.
s_n_d Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 Well.... Listen to your heart. You said yourself that your heart still wants to be with him. If thats the case, then you know what you have to do.
s_n_d Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 But dont get ahead of yourself here. He may be calling and texting for other reasons. You never know...
PinkRibbon Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 It's only been 4 days. He probably has had time to think this over????
Author ElleVado Posted January 23, 2008 Author Posted January 23, 2008 I don’t know why he tried to contact me last night and all this morning, but this afternoon he called a few times and left me a voicemail about something else that was urgent we needed to discuss. Totally not related to our relationship. So I just talked to him for a minute about that. He’s going to call back tonight when he’s on the way to my house to drop off my things. I’m not going to invite him in and I don’t plan to talk about us. When I see him, I’m sure I’ll just want to take him in my arms. But I can’t change what happened and I’m not going to try to change it. But I know it’s going to be so hard for me to watch him just turn around and leave.
jerbear Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 I don’t know why he tried to contact me last night and all this morning, but this afternoon he called a few times and left me a voicemail about something else that was urgent we needed to discuss. Totally not related to our relationship. So I just talked to him for a minute about that. He’s going to call back tonight when he’s on the way to my house to drop off my things. I’m not going to invite him in and I don’t plan to talk about us. When I see him, I’m sure I’ll just want to take him in my arms. But I can’t change what happened and I’m not going to try to change it. But I know it’s going to be so hard for me to watch him just turn around and leave. Right now you are in relapse. Tell him to leave the stuff by the door and you won't see him. Give it a few days and go from there. 3 times in 12 hours is alot.
Author ElleVado Posted January 23, 2008 Author Posted January 23, 2008 (edited) Right now you are in relapse. Tell him to leave the stuff by the door and you won't see him. Give it a few days and go from there. 3 times in 12 hours is alot. You’re right. Omg am I nuts?! I wouldn’t see him the night of our breakup, I can’t believe I was about to let him see me tonight. Even just to take back my stuff. I’m so glad I posted here, thanks! Edited January 23, 2008 by ElleVado fix quote
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