screwedup55 Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 I find myself missing us more than missing her. Don't get me wrong I still miss her very much. I'm just wondering how other people feel. Do we miss the person more or the relationship more (and I don't mean just being in a relationship) or equal? Do you think or say I miss her/him or do you think or say I miss us?
jdeedee Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 It depends on the day. The last few days I have really regressed in regards to moving on. I'll blame her birthday, school beginning and seeing her for literally seconds two days in a row. Anyway as I was getting over her I missed us. Now I miss her. Missing us is a better thing in my eyes, but I am a bit confused about it in general. Last week in therapy I definetly told my therapist I am lonely and miss companionship, but now I feel lonely and miss my ex girlfriend.
NiceGirlcomeslast Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 I complete agree when my break up first began 7 weeks ago I missed my ex I missed his smile, his smell, the way that he looked at me, his laugh, his stupid jokes that he stole from friends but told so well. During my better times over the last 7 weeks I began to miss us, I missed not needing anything in the world apart from him and maybe a snack every 8 hours and the occasional DVD. I missed that within 6 hours of meeting him I was more comfortable with him than anyone else I have ever met. He used to say that we were made for each other and being with me was like coming home, which meant something because he has never felt at home in London in the 3 years he has lived here, and in turn I don't think I have ever felt like I belonged here since I came back from uni as much as when I was with him. I miss that. I think missing us rather than them is a whole step in the right direction. I think personally I wont miss him forever, because I want him in my life even as a friend and if that doesn't work out then I will get over it, but I know friend or not I will miss us forever.
PinkRibbon Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 I think I miss him. The way he smiled, the way he laughed and the silly things he used to do. Wish he would come back....
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