how long do physical relationships last while also trying to hurt someone? :/

[jess24]

this guy i was dating was awesome and we got along great until he started being weird because i would not have sex with him at the time and i said i wanted to be in a relationship first. he said he was not looking for a relationship with anyone and he wanted to get to know me better. we basically stopped seeing each other and then i got drunk a couple nights later and his best friend kissed me at a party and then he got mad at me. i wasn't sure why he cared so much considering we were basically through and he obviously didn't want to be in a relationship to begin with.

 

two weeks later i find out he is in a relationship with some girl who he met literally two days before he decided to be in a relationship with her. they've been together for about 3 weeks now. i know its probably just physical because she's unattractive, seems to have a pretty bad reputation as a slut, and quite the bitch as well from what i've heard. i know he's just doing this to hurt me and at the same time get what he wanted all along which is just sex but how long do you think their relationship will last? i'm starting to think he might actually like her even though i've heard so many bad things about her...i don't exactly want him back but more than anything i just don't really like the fact that he is with her.

[ElvenPriestess]

Well being they are both "real winners" I'd say they're well matched up. You should feel sorry for both of them being the way they are and say good ridance.

[caramel271]

I think that you are too concerned about him. You don't really know this guy that well. And if you told him you don't want to have sex till you have a relationship then this is not tha guy for you! If he was so quick to go and meet someone and get with her 2 days later that lets you know what kind of person he is. He just showed you his true colors!!! Don't worry about him and his girlfriend, or how long their relationship will last. Continue on with your life. Go out live ah lil bit. Have fun and do what makes you happy. Enjoy tha company of your frenz and family. That seems to always make me feel better. Life is only but a second!! Do you and put your happiness first

[polly240483]

i didnt think that my ex n his gf would last as she is unattractive n a bitch, but they have been together for 8 months now so obviously there is something there even tho he got with her to piss me off